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Visiting North Peak Brewing Co. Traverse City, MI |
In the kitchen - aprons on! |
Couples often look for ways to entice a partner to expand his or her perspectives on the possibilities in or even out of the bedroom. Often planning a special romantic evening as a surprise for your honey often doesn’t go as arranged. Kids, pets, families, work… so many things may interrupt. It would be much easier to plan something with your partner rather than planning a surprise.
I found a
unique and fun idea.
Pick out a couple of cute jars from a craft shop or dollar store, decorate yourself. |
Keep two “wish” jars in the kitchen, one for each or you.
Take some index cards and cut in half. Stack the cards next to the jars. Whenever something comes to mind that would be fun to do together, it gets written down on a card and dropped into the appropriate bowl.
Create a
ritual for the “big drawing”. At the beginning of each month, sit down at the
end of the day with a glass of wine and some cheese. Pick five cards at random
from each other’s jar. Read them over, talk about them and maybe even negotiate
a bit. The only rule is you have to
agree on two activities to be done during the next month.
Sexy games can bring the spice back to any relationship. You may have had a terrific sex life before, but the hassles of day-to-day existence have made sex less of a priority. Maybe you and your honey are looking for a little something different, something to add some zing to your love life. Perhaps, you simply need an exercise to encourage intimacy.
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Sexy games don't have to be confusing or complex. Find a game that both of you would enjoy to have fun and created intimacy.
Discuss the need to set some ground rules before playing sexy games. Be sure to respect each other's vulnerability, especially when trying something new in the bedroom. Both partners must be able to end the game at any time, for any reason.
A fun game is GUESS WHAT THIS IS
Take a break from the daily grind and revive that feeling
of being relaxed and close.
Fall brings football to our little town. The stands full of families cheering, hot chocolate flowing, and cuddles under warm blankets. But 2020 has different plans.
This year, is so very different. Each player is allow two guest per game. I picked up my season passes in the office this week. Despite being so few, we still hung banners, cheered loudly and rang our cowbells in support of our boys. We don't complain, this season wasn't even supposed to happen. The Michigan governor wanted football to be played in the spring. Ah... we have snow until April. (?????) Lucky for us the powers-that-be in high school athletics managed to keep fall sports in the autumn but with few adjustments. (Read the MHSAA article.) We parents complied because our kids NEED this and the games are for them not us. We are simply supporters.Nevertheless, the game went off without a hitch. Our team is wearing a first of it's kind type of shield on their helmets so they don't have to wear fabric over their mouths on the field. (Read the article here.) The players have matching gators around their necks they pull up when they are on the sidelines sporting their team name and colors. Coaches sport masks and gators showing their team spirit and unity.
As I sat in the stands, I closed my eyes for a moment. Was the romance of fall football gone?
The cool breezed carried the faint smell of bonfires and grills tickled my nose. The grunts and and smacks of powerful young men pushing themselves to their limits for the love of the sport could be heard between the cheers of proud parents.
Love and pride abundant. The romance of fall football remains.
We all know romance is an important element in a relationship.
"Real-life romance is something I encourage you to engage in every day. Just give it a try. Many times it's all about the little things and just going with your heart. Trust that your desire to create romance is enough to get things started, and give it your own spin." - Barton Goldsmith Ph. D, Emotional Fitness
Just letting her know you think she's wonderful can become a romantic moment. |
Here are some key rewards of being romantic.
1. Adds
spice, sparkle and zest to our lives
2. Hugs,
kisses, caressing
3. Makes us
feel sexy and attractive
4. Helps
love grow
5. Helps a
couple feel closer
6. Provides
intimacy
7. Keeps
things fresh
8. Makes
daily routines bearable
9. Brings
fun and joy into a relationship
10. Provides
an atmosphere of mutual support
11. Let’s a
couple hear the little things that are important
12. Makes us
feel special and valued
13. Reminds
us how lucky we are to be sharing life and love together
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Many people don't try to do anything romantic because they simply don't know how.
Super hint: There are NO Secrets to romance. Most of the time, people are doing romantic gestures without even realizing. After all, anyone who has read a romance book or watch a romantic movie have a general idea about romance. Grand gestures are needed and simple things are appreciated. For example, a daisy freshly picked from a field is just as romantic as a dozen long-stemmed roses.
My favorite romantic gesture is when my honey reaches out to hold my hand.
It tickles me pink when I see Mom and Dad holding hands. |
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What better way to wind-down from the week than a nice meal on Friday night. Preparing a meal together is good for a couple. It's a chance to talk, tease, laugh and kiss. According to some studies, cooking is one of the top activities couples can do together to strengthen their relationship. Cooking together is a soothing experience. It's great to relieve stress; think chatting and chopping. Using your hands to create the meal, maybe even sipping wine or sharing a beer, can easily turn into a sensual experience. Take a moment to hand feed a sample to your honey and follow it with a kiss.
A man who cooks is hot. |
When you set a timer for pasta or veggies, use the opportunity to discuss something important or have a make out session. When the timer dings, the moment is paused.
Preparing a meal at our house is a family affair. We've always included our sons and each one enjoys cooking as much as he enjoys eating. Over the years we've included friends and girlfriends to take part of the fun.
With eldest son now married, he and his new wife join us once a week for a meal. They often talk about meals they've prepared together.
Son #2 lives 3 hours away. He and his girl will go to market together then prepare the meal.
Son #3 is still underfoot, and tolerates our PDA during meal prep. However, occasionally hubby and I enjoy an evening alone.
The key to enjoy meal prep is keeping it fun, busy and communication is important. If you and your honey don't see eye-to-eye in meal prep you need to communicate, compromise,or simply take turns in the kitchen.
Check out the article Couples Who Cook Together Stay Together, Says Science.
Check out this article on cooking together by Jillian Kramer
A family vacation full of fun and chaos may be hard to squeeze in a little romance, but it's not impossible.
Letting Son #2 drive the boat while hubby & I play footsie. |
Vacation time is the perfect time to break the every day routine and enjoy new moments of romance. Many couples find watching a sunset together every night during vacation as their romantic moment.
Hubby & I found waking before everyone to enjoy a cup of coffee together as our special romantic moment.
We also found a lot of fun in tormenting our children with PG-13 open displays of affection.
Needless to say, find a few moments every day during vacation time to add a little romance.
Cheers & romance from the Quast Kitchen. |