Couples often look for ways to entice a partner to expand his or her perspectives on the possibilities in or even out of the bedroom. Often planning a special romantic evening as a surprise for your honey often doesn’t go as arranged. Kids, pets, families, work… so many things may interrupt. It would be much easier to plan something with your partner rather than planning a surprise.
I found a
unique and fun idea.
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| Pick out a couple of cute jars from a craft shop or dollar store, decorate yourself. |
Keep two “wish” jars in the kitchen, one for each or you.
Take some index cards and cut in half. Stack the cards next to the jars. Whenever something comes to mind that would be fun to do together, it gets written down on a card and dropped into the appropriate bowl.
Create a
ritual for the “big drawing”. At the beginning of each month, sit down at the
end of the day with a glass of wine and some cheese. Pick five cards at random
from each other’s jar. Read them over, talk about them and maybe even negotiate
a bit. The only rule is you have to
agree on two activities to be done during the next month.
