Friday, February 11, 2011
Friday Foreplay with Guest Blogger Erick McAlister
Thank you again, Mary, for letting me blog. This is rather fun. Today I'm going to share my thoughts on enhancing foreplay.
Foreplay is the equivalent to an appetizer of a passionate meal for two. If done right it can leave you hungry and eagerly anticipating the main course. But, if hurriedly approached and thrown together it can show your lack of skill, ability and overall appreciation of your partner. To help you avoid this I've made a list of some foreplay essentials that every couple should have. Now, the next time you're ready to cook up a hot night, you'll be prepared!
1.Your Favorite Fruit
This is actually a favorite of my brother, Michael. Keep a small bowl of your favorite, sensual fruit like strawberries, oranges or grapes in your refrigerator. When the mood strikes, hand feed each other or eat it off of each other.
Depending on your tastes, try chocolate body paint or edible massage oils. Lynn perfers chocolate, I personally favore whipped cream.
Sight plays a large part of intercourse. Tantalize your partner with a few sexy pieces of apparel. The feel of silk against skin is amazing!
Everyone's taste differs. Experiment to see which music gets you in the mood!
If you have a good voice, try singing. I snared Lynn with a song. Love the sound of your partner's voice? Imagine them telling you a sensual story starring you...
Lordy...the feeling of something soft, silky and smooth can enhance your sense of touch like no other!
Foreplay can be fun or passionate... especially if you use this essential appropriately. Try adding a blindfold to this game.
Sometimes the best way to heighten your senses is to render one useless. A blindfold can add a degree of intimacy and trust in your partner that other things cannot. Remember to talk to your partner about how they feel about using one before actually doing so.
Uhm.... time for me to sign off... I need to find my wife.
Oh, don't forget, Mary is giving away two special items this month.
A signed copy of Tormented Soul (I'm the sexy hero of course) and a gift from my favorite store, Lover's Lane.
All you have to do is leave a comment on any post until midnight the 14th, the holiday for love... Valentine's Day.
Names will be placed into a drawing and the winner will be picked and announced on February 15.