1.
Fruit. Sensual fruit such as strawberries, grapes
and bananas may be easily found in your kitchen and can be a lot of fun to
tease with. Try dancing around your
partner and feed him bits of fruit while teasing him with your body.
2.
Sensual
food. Whipping cream (see my 13 Things to Do with Whipping Cream). Chocolate
and other sensual foods. (See my Sensual Food Post).
3.
A
nice beverage. Wine is always nice but a
hot cup of coco or tea can be sensual in its own way especially in winter. Try
a cup of spicy Masala Chai, or a tea containing yarrow, or better yet the
aphrodisiac tea - Black Galingale.
4.
Candles. Men have a tendency to prefer candles that
smell like food – vanilla, orange spice, melon.
Women may prefer floral scents for romance. Cluster candles on a reflective tray. I like to mix the scents – Lavender, vanilla
or orange spice, Hawaiian flower, white tea & ginger. Visit a local candle shop and select candles
together for a special evening.
5.
Sensual
music. What gets you in the mood? Soft jazz for a romantic evening of slow love
making? Underground dance music for some
creative adventuring? Hard rock for some
fierce pounding? I suggest picking out
the music in advance and being flexible to your mood at the time. One night you might like soft jazz, the next
you might choose something louder.
6.
Lingerie.
Silk boxers for him, g-string for her?
Silk slip? Flannel pants and
tight cotton tank? Whatever you feel
sexy in is what you should choose.
However, latest polls show men don’t like lots of lace and
buttons/snaps.
7.
Sheets. If you’re taking it to bed think of what
feels good under you. Don’t always think
silk sheets are the best… flannel sheets are very cozy, especially in the
northern regions.
8.
Blankets. If you visit my house, you’ll notice a
variety of cozy, soft blankets on a blanket rack in the great room. They aren’t just for making kids’ forts. Ever try snuggling on a leather couch under a
fleece blanket? Try it!
9.
Lotions. Keep ones that sensually inspire your mind
and ones that can be licked off.
10.
Feather. Ever wonder why romance writers love writing
plumes so much. Heh, heh. Next time you’re at the zoo, pick up an
ostrich feather or visit you local sex shop for some top notch fun feathers.
11.
Blindfold.,
silk scarves, hand cuffs. Need I say
anything more?
12.
Love
coupons. Pick up a booklet of them or
print them on the computer. Hide a
coupon in a special place for your honey to find. A great teaser!
13.
Romantic
games. There’s a wide variety out
there. A great way to add a little
exploration into your love life. Always
remember, laughing in bed can be a wonderful foreplay move.
