Showing posts with label sensuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sensuality. Show all posts
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Thursday Thirteen – 13 Natural Aphrodisiacs
Today's post was originally posted several years ago. With a few edits I've decided to share it again.
Many New Year's Resolutions include "eating and living healthy". This TT is for those who may want to add some "natural health" to their sex lives.
The word “aphrodisiac” comes from the Greek goddess of sensuality, love and beauty, Aphrodite. They are agents used to increase sexual desire. Aphrodisiacs can be foods, herbs and supplements, tinctures, teas for ingestion or bathing, or oils for massage or scent. Aphrodisiacs are a fun way to generate sensual feelings, enhance your sexual experience, and increase your level of sexual performance. Various herbs, spices, vitamins and minerals can be found easily at any health food store. Check with packages for directions or ask a specialist regarding organic herbs for advice on dosages and uses.
(Natural Herbs & Spices)
1. Ginkgo biloba – the “longevity herb”
2. Ginseng – increases sexual appetite
3. Horney goats weed – stimulates desire and gives you energy
4. Lovage – used in love brews for women
5. Rosemary – add to food and also good added to a bath
6. Sassafras tree – used to make MDMA, the root cortex of this tree is used in making sensual oils and is also ingested
7. Saw palmetto – promotes circulation – especially in the genitals
8. Yarrow – ingest tonic or chew on the raw stem 3 hours or so before intercourse – a stimulant
(Vitamins and Minerals)
9. B-Complex – increases energy, metabolism, and function of nerves – directly related to sexual fulfillment
10. Kelp – used to help an improperly functioning thyroid gland that causes fatigue and lowered sex drive, among other symptoms
11. L-Tyrosine – increases sexual drive, decreases reactions to stress, and helps depression
12. Wheat – strengthens sexual organs
13. Zinc – key for healthy sexual function
Try something new and natural to brew up a sensual love life.
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Tempting Tuesday - The Arrangement
Lynn stood in the shower and let the water hit her face and mix with the tears that fell. She was so ashamed of her behavior with Erick. She had become intoxicated with the excitement and the attention he showed her, she took the chance and told him that she wanted him. His rejection was devastating in the sense that she had now complicated their friendship.
She turned off the water, toweled off and applied a soft fragrant lotion over her body. Deep inside she stowed a secret fantasy of Erick sneaking into the studio as Andrew had done. She was envious of the intense passion her friends had for each other.
Removing the towel from her head, she ran a comb through her wet hair. If she just talked to Erick, god willing, he’d forgive her foolish actions. Perhaps he might put it off as a bad joke. Perhaps if she left for Wales the next day she could put the incident behind her.
Lynn sighed; she just wanted to go to bed. She wrapped a robe around her, opened the door and heard the stereo playing. She hadn’t touched the stereo when she got in. Looking around, she saw the lit candles and a dark figure sitting in a chair. Her eyes widened, her heart raced, she held her breath for a moment, waiting.
“Did you use up all the hot water?”
“Erick?”
He sounded much like himself and not like the person she saw at The Skunk’s Den. Her anxiety diminished when she saw him lean forward in the chair. The candlelight softened his features, his hair fell into his eyes but he looked tired.
She moved closer to him.
“What are you doing here?”
“I don’t know,” he rubbed his head. “I’ve been walking around thinking about what you said, what I said and…” he paused. “I’m sorry for being angry with you. I guess I put you on a pedestal just like you once told me not to do.”
“What?” Lynn was confused.
“I never thought you’d be one to use people; you’re different. Tonight I thought you were doing to me what women always do to me and I couldn’t bear putting you in the same category with them.”
“I’m sorry, Erick, for propositioning you like that. I put you on the spot and I hope I haven’t compromised our friendship.”
“I don’t think our friendship has suffered. We’re talking, aren’t we?” He stood up. “I just want to know if your proposition still stands.”
Lynn wasn’t sure how to answer him. She watched him saunter towards her. He still wore his leathers and looked incredibly sexy. His body swayed in tune to the music with every step he took. She wanted to experience what she knew he was capable of giving. She looked into his eyes; they were black like the devil’s.
“Well, Lynn, does it?”
“Yes.” She could barely say the word.
“The way I look at it,” he stood in front of her and stroked her arm, “if you want to experience sexual freedom, who better to show you than me. Right? If we’re careful we can enjoy this and not hurt our friendship.”
She turned off the water, toweled off and applied a soft fragrant lotion over her body. Deep inside she stowed a secret fantasy of Erick sneaking into the studio as Andrew had done. She was envious of the intense passion her friends had for each other.
Removing the towel from her head, she ran a comb through her wet hair. If she just talked to Erick, god willing, he’d forgive her foolish actions. Perhaps he might put it off as a bad joke. Perhaps if she left for Wales the next day she could put the incident behind her.
Lynn sighed; she just wanted to go to bed. She wrapped a robe around her, opened the door and heard the stereo playing. She hadn’t touched the stereo when she got in. Looking around, she saw the lit candles and a dark figure sitting in a chair. Her eyes widened, her heart raced, she held her breath for a moment, waiting.
“Did you use up all the hot water?”
“Erick?”
He sounded much like himself and not like the person she saw at The Skunk’s Den. Her anxiety diminished when she saw him lean forward in the chair. The candlelight softened his features, his hair fell into his eyes but he looked tired.
She moved closer to him.
“What are you doing here?”
“I don’t know,” he rubbed his head. “I’ve been walking around thinking about what you said, what I said and…” he paused. “I’m sorry for being angry with you. I guess I put you on a pedestal just like you once told me not to do.”
“What?” Lynn was confused.
“I never thought you’d be one to use people; you’re different. Tonight I thought you were doing to me what women always do to me and I couldn’t bear putting you in the same category with them.”
“I’m sorry, Erick, for propositioning you like that. I put you on the spot and I hope I haven’t compromised our friendship.”
“I don’t think our friendship has suffered. We’re talking, aren’t we?” He stood up. “I just want to know if your proposition still stands.”
Lynn wasn’t sure how to answer him. She watched him saunter towards her. He still wore his leathers and looked incredibly sexy. His body swayed in tune to the music with every step he took. She wanted to experience what she knew he was capable of giving. She looked into his eyes; they were black like the devil’s.
“Well, Lynn, does it?”
“Yes.” She could barely say the word.
“The way I look at it,” he stood in front of her and stroked her arm, “if you want to experience sexual freedom, who better to show you than me. Right? If we’re careful we can enjoy this and not hurt our friendship.”
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Sensual Sunday - excerpt
This is an excerpt from Painted Soul. Lynn was spending time at Hampton House with Elizabeth. Whenever Lynn visited, she slept in the room next to her friend, which also happen to belong to Elizabeth's sexy brother Erick.
The lead to this scene: Erick and friends arrive at Hampton House in the middle of the night. He was too drunk to notice there was somebody sleeping in his bed. When morning broke through the darkness of the night...
Lynn stirred slightly as she woke. Still somewhat in a dream state she felt warm arms around her. Slowly she crept back to sleep until the arms tightened around her.
“Wha’?” she sat up abruptly.
Erick groaned as his sleep was disturbed. His head was pounding. He opened his eyes to see Lynn sitting in his bed. She gripped the sheet to her chest. Her eyes were as big as saucers, a pillow crease on her cheek, her hair flying in several directions. She was the most beautiful creature he had ever seen.
“What are you doing in my bed?” Lynn stared at him.
“Your bed?” He casually propped himself on his elbow, catching the sheet as it slid to his waist, “Look a little closer at your surroundings, this is my room.”
He watched Lynn look at the soccer trophies, and other pieces of his memorabilia scattered about the room.
“I’m so sorry. I didn’t know you were coming. Elizabeth lets me sleep in this room when we are here alone because it’s closer to hers. I know she would’ve told me if she were expecting you. I hope you don’t mind.”
“You don’t need to explain. It’s ok. Actually, it’s kind of nice to think you enjoy sleeping in my room,” he flashed a wicked grin at her. “I’m sorry I stumbled in last night and scared you this morning. I certainly wasn’t in any condition to notice someone sleeping in my bed when I came in.”
Erick’s voice wavered when Lynn gave him a nervous smile. He struggled to remain collected.
“I wish I could be the gentleman here, but I’m afraid I can’t remove myself from this bed in your presence.”
“Why?” Lynn looked at him like a deer caught in headlights.
“Other than enjoying the position I’m in,” he let the sheet fall to expose a naked hip, “I don’t make a habit of exposing myself to my sister’s friends.”
Erick gave a low chuckle at Lynn’s gasp.
“Don’t worry I won’t eat you for breakfast. I won’t touch you, unless you want me to,” he looked at her under lowered lashes as he lay back upon the pillow. For a fleeting moment he thought he saw contemplation in Lynn’s expression.
“Come now, we’re old friends, are we not? After years of not seeing you, I never expected to find you in my bed.” He coaxed a smile from her and saw her shoulders relax. “When I was a kid, Elizabeth and I used to lie here together and play a game called Secrets. We would take turns sharing secrets. How about we play, I tell you a couple of secrets.”
“Yeah, sure.”
“Let’s see,” he rubbed his head, “until now, no woman to the best of my knowledge has ever slept in this bed.”
“I find that hard to believe,” Lynn snorted.
“Really, I’ve never brought anyone here. I always considered it disrespectful.”
“Okay. So now I’m the only one who’s slept in this bed.”
“Right,” Erick couldn’t help but flash a smile, “now for secret number two.”
“Oh, I’m on pins and needles.”
“This is the first time I’ve woke in the morning with a woman in my bed. I usually make a point to not spend an entire night with a woman.”
“I’m probably the first woman you’ve had in your bed that you haven’t seduced.”
“True.”
“So that makes three secrets. I feel honored with your openness, sir,” Lynn mocked. “Don’t worry, your secrets are safe with me.”
After a shared laugh, Erick touched her hand and felt a shock.
“Humor me Lynn, stay with me a little longer. I have to admit, it felt rather nice.” After a pause when Lynn withdrew her hand from his touch, he added, “I’ll behave. I’m too hung over to do anything except sleep more.”
She relaxed and laid her head upon his chest. He gently wrapped his arms around her. He desperately wanted to throw the beautiful woman in his grasp on her back and ravish her. But she was too good for him, she would never love a man with his reputation. He prayed she wouldn’t notice his rod and run away. Lynn felt so right in his arms, he wanted the morning to last forever.
“This is nice,” he said softly.
Feeling daring, Lynn caressed the smooth skin on his broad pectorals. She soon stopped when she heard a low groan escape from Erick’s lips. She melted as his arms tightened around her until her whole body was against his. She found herself wondering what it would be like make love to Erick.
Sadly, she thought, ‘he only sees women as toys, and I can’t compare to the beautiful women in his circle.’
“I can’t believe how long it’s been, I hope you can stay in England for a while.”
“I haven’t made any plans for a return trip yet,” Lynn inhaled Erick’s masculine scent. “I’m taking some time off after finishing a big assignment. But I did bring my cameras, just in case I find some inspiration. And I must admit I’ve needed some lately.”
“Maybe I could help.”
Lynn’s heart skipped a beat.
“There’s a place in the gardens I’ve enjoyed since I was a boy. I used to go there to escape and think about life and stuff. It’s a very beautiful spot. Maybe you’ll find it inspiring.”
“I’d like that,” Lynn was still in shock about being alone with this notorious lover, in his arms, in his bed. She had heard the rumors and saw the tabloid articles about him. He was touted as one of the world’s most dangerous bachelors. It had been said that he could seduce a woman with a whisper and take her to the highest peaks of ecstasy in the most unusual of places.
“Well, I’m sure you’ve heard, Michael and I are taking over McAlister Enterprises,” Erick was obviously trying to make small talk. “Believe it or not, I’m thinking of giving up the flat and looking for one in Kensington or even buying a house. You know, something a little more respectable. If you stay long enough maybe you could help me find a nice place. I mean, since Elizabeth will probably be too busy.”
“Wow! I can’t believe it, Erick McAlister wanting to be respectable.” Lynn remembered what Elizabeth said about Erick wanting to settle down, “next you’ll want a dog, a wife and kids!”
“Ah, my reputation precedes me,” he sighed. “To be honest, Lynn, I am trying to end my tom cat ways. If I wasn’t truly trying, you would be screaming in passion right now.”
Erick felt her tremble. Did the image he just put into her mind repulse her?
“Do you want to get breakfast now?” he tried to change the subject.
“No, not yet,” he was surprised by her curt response. Then after a pause she added, “I would feel honored to look at houses with you Erick. I’m pleased to see you are looking towards the future.”
“I guess I’m just trying to be responsible,” he chuckled.
“You have a nice laugh.”
“Thanks,” his heart melted with her voice as he felt her snuggle against him. He was overwhelmed with how right she felt in his arms. His skin tingled as she carefully draped her leg over his.
“Thank you for letting me hold you like this,” he spoke cautiously, “I haven’t cuddled like this since that old brown bear up there on the bookshelf was my cuddling partner.”
“Well, I’m happy to oblige,” Lynn closed her eyes and placed a hand on his belly, “I must admit I’m not used to feeling arms like yours around me. You’re strong enough to break me in half, but it feels nice at the same time.”
“You haven’t told me a secret yet in our game.”
“A secret? I don’t know what to say.”
“Are you afraid of me, Lynn?”
“No, well…. Honestly, part of me is, always has been.”
“Don’t be, I’ve already promised I won’t ravish you.” His heart pounded in his chest as he tried to remain under control.
“I’ve never been ravished.”
“Okay, there are two secrets, we’ll call it even. Now let’s talk of something else,” Erick grunted, “before my body hears any of this talk and starts a mutiny with my mind. My sister would have my hide if I… well, you know. You are a beautiful woman and a good friend. I don’t want to mess anything up, even though I’m tempted. Oh, no, I’ve said too much!”
“I’m glad you think so highly of me,” Lynn said, patting him. “But don’t put me on a pedestal, the fall is always hard.”
“Sounds like the voice of experience talking,” Erick put a hand on her shoulder.
“When I met Tad I thought we were soul mates. We were both photographers and our personalities were so similar. He was like the male version of me. We were best friends and put each other on pedestals built with high expectations that niether of us could ever fulfill.”
“What really happened, Lynn? I understand he still works for your dad and you’re still friends. Usually, after a broken engagement the parties don’t speak.”
“We were good at being friends and lousy at being anything more. We found out we had too many similar interests, including other men. When I found out he preferred men over me, I was hurt at first but more relieved. I started to feel like I was engaged to my brother!”
“So he was gay, huh?”
“Yeah, kinda sucks doesn’t it?”
“Well,” Erick chuckled at Lynn’s forward but honest attitude, “look at it this way, you may have lost a boyfriend but you gained a girlfriend!”
I'm giving away two special items this month.
A signed copy of Tormented Soul and a gift from my favorite store, Lover's Lane.
All you have to do is leave a comment on any post until midnight the 14th, the holiday for love... Valentine's Day.
Names will be placed into a drawing and the winner will be picked and announced on February 15.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Humpday Help - Sex Advice from Erick McAlister
Yep... that's a photo of me and the love of my life, Lynn. Hmmm... just looking at that pic makes me hard all over again. I might have to make this post short.
Hello everyone! Mary was so kind to let me do today's post. After all, I wasn't voted London's Most Dangerous Bachelor for nothing. I'm really not dangerous... except for in the bedroom. Well.... maybe not just in the bedroom....Any who! I've taken numerous women to hell and to heaven.
For guys:
My best advice for you is if you don't ever, ever spend the night unless you want more from the relationship. Always be honest with her and yourself.
Location is important. Up against the wall in an elevator can be exciting, but only if she's willing. Candles, wine and music is usually a sure bed. Just make sure you really know what she's "into" for maximum fun.
Now women like to be touched, it's the most erotic of the senses. Pay close attention to her reaction to your touch; she'll let you know with her breath and soft sounds if she prefers it gentle or rough. Touch her with everything and anything... fingers, feathers, food, silk, leather, tongue, whatever! Hold her, take control of her body so she can't pull away. Push her past her comfort level all the while prolonging the passion.
Keep her relaxed with a sensual massage all over her body and search for that mysterious g-spot. Kiss her longer and keep touching. Make frequent eye contact and whisper in her ear letting your breath caress her cheek.
Utilize all your senses and hers. I guarantee it would be a night you both would never forget.
For ladies:
If you want to show your man how much you love him, the best thing you can do is bed him well and often. Sex should be on a regular basis, but not a scheduled one. Spontaneity is just as important sexually speaking as it is in regards to romance. One way to give him some unplanned loving might be surprising him by being naked or dressed in something sexy when he least expects it. Another might be to jump on him the minute he walks in the door from work. Wake your man up before the alarm clock for some early morning loving, or call him to bed in the middle of the day. You get the idea.
Encourage your man's masculine inclinations. Sometimes, men just want to have their wildest, freakiest dreams come true. In the heat of the moment, whisper in his ear that if he wants to grab a hold of your hair or give you a little spank, he is welcome to do so (only if he truly is, of course).
Tell your man what you like. Do it for your own sexual satisfaction, but also to please him. Men truly want to please their ladies. It makes them feel good about being a man. They get great satisfaction out of making their women happy all of the time.
Be his candy, ladies, and you'll have the best sex of your life!
Hey, Mary is giving away two special items this month.
A signed copy of Tormented Soul (I'm the sexy hero of course) and a gift from my favorite store, Lover's Lane.
All you have to do is leave a comment on any post until midnight the 14th, the holiday for love... Valentine's Day.
Names will be placed into a drawing and the winner will be picked and announced on February 15.
Monday, February 7, 2011
Excerpt Monday - Tormented Soul
EXCERPT 3
A white curtain billowed as a soft breeze blew into the room. The sound of bustling vehicles traveling the streets in Mayfair came through the window. Erick’s eyes fluttered; he couldn’t remember the last time he slept so well and wasn’t ready to wake yet. A warm figure stirred next to him. Suddenly the memories of the night came to him. A slow smile spread across his lips as he felt fingers run through his hair.
He opened his eyes and saw Lynn on her pillow facing him with the same smile.
“Good morning.”
“Hmm. Good morning,” he said as she caressed his rough cheek.
Under the covers he ran his hands across her naked body and pulled her closer. She snuggled under his chin. He sighed, full of sheer happiness.
“This is a little different than last time,” Lynn purred.
“How so?”
“I’m not afraid of you.”
“So you really were afraid of me that morning! Did you really think I was going to ravish you?”
“I was secretly hoping you would,” she admitted.
“Well, I’ll be damned!”
“But it was nice, anyway.”
“Yes it was, and so is this.” Erick stroked her exposed shoulder. “This feels so good. I could stay here forever.”
His stomach took the moment to growl.
“I think it must be around lunch,” Lynn laughed as she sat up.
Her hair had been damp when they went to bed and was now sticking up in many different directions. She had a pillow mark on her face. He watched as she tried to calm her mane with her hand. To Erick, she was the most beautiful creature in the world.
“Oh, I’ll have to wet it down again,” she groaned. “I think I’ll jump in the shower. Then we should think of getting something to eat.”
“Yes.” He rubbed his stomach. “I’d better shower as well. I’m sure I don’t smell like roses.”
“You’ve got that right!”
“Are you saying I stink?” He reached out grabbed her and began tickling her.
“I’ll wash you if you want,” she giggled.
“That sounds good.” He released her.
“Give me time to wash my hair and shave my legs.” She teased him with her walk. “Then come and join me.”
“OKAY I’ll go find some coffee to make.”
“You don’t drink tea?”
“Some days I want coffee. Today is one.”
“Do you always get what you want?”
“Most definitely.” He winked at her.
To celebrate, I'm giving away two special items this month.
A signed copy of Tormented Soul and a gift from my favorite store, Lover's Lane.
All you have to do is leave a comment on any post from Feb.1st until midnight the 14 th, the holiday for love... Valentine's Day.
Names will be placed into a drawing and the winner will be picked and announced on February 15.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Humpday Help - A poem
In this busy week, take a moment and enjoy the world around you. I love the day, but I prefer the night and the midnight sun. My favorite is when I can see the moon during the day. Sit back and enjoy my rambling.
The Moon
I looked up from the cement world
and saw the moon today.
What a pleasant surprise!
He may have even looked my way.
I stood in my white cloak
Made of angels small.
I wanted to find my voice
But my body headed the call.
Every night I look to him
Wondering if he looks back at me.
Perhaps when I turn around,
He casts a glance to see.
Did I give him a smile?
Did my heart jump on my sleeve?
He graciously walked away,
Oh, the webs that we weave!
My mind tells me that he is dead,
My heart calls out to him.
I pray for him each day,
My hope never grows dim.
Only at night to I stand to gaze
In my cloak of white.
The small angles sleeping
Hidden from sight.
I speak in soft whispers
I’m sure he never hears.
I just wish for him to know
How I hold him so dear.
He loved me once then
Cast me to earth.
But my love remains,
And admiration grows from this dirt.
Memories of tenderness come
Rays of moonlight caress my skin.
Emotions never forgotten
But hidden within.
With my arms, I reach to the moon
Embracing the light cast below.
I’m sure he does not see me,
To him I am only a shadow.
I was surprised to see the moon
In the daylight, alive and well.
Tonight I will send him a smile
And in the shadow’s I will dwell.
The Moon
I looked up from the cement world
and saw the moon today.
What a pleasant surprise!
He may have even looked my way.
I stood in my white cloak
Made of angels small.
I wanted to find my voice
But my body headed the call.
Every night I look to him
Wondering if he looks back at me.
Perhaps when I turn around,
He casts a glance to see.
Did I give him a smile?
Did my heart jump on my sleeve?
He graciously walked away,
Oh, the webs that we weave!
My mind tells me that he is dead,
My heart calls out to him.
I pray for him each day,
My hope never grows dim.
Only at night to I stand to gaze
In my cloak of white.
The small angles sleeping
Hidden from sight.
I speak in soft whispers
I’m sure he never hears.
I just wish for him to know
How I hold him so dear.
He loved me once then
Cast me to earth.
But my love remains,
And admiration grows from this dirt.
Memories of tenderness come
Rays of moonlight caress my skin.
Emotions never forgotten
But hidden within.
With my arms, I reach to the moon
Embracing the light cast below.
I’m sure he does not see me,
To him I am only a shadow.
I was surprised to see the moon
In the daylight, alive and well.
Tonight I will send him a smile
And in the shadow’s I will dwell.
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