Saturday, July 25, 2020

Remember to Breathe

During all the prep for the wedding, the dark cloud of stress tried to visit.  
Someone told me...
Just remember to breathe.
I take that advice to heart and suggest if you ever feel anxiety or stress slipping into your veins take a moment. 

I do a little thing I call the 4 by 4. I stand tall facing the north. I raise my arms while taking a deep breath to 4 counts. With my arms up, I stretch, and hold my breath for 4 counts. Exhale while lowering my arms. Breathing in good air, pushing out the bad. 
I turn and face the east, repeat. Breath in for count if 4. Stretch to the count of 4.

Turn and face each direction. During this time think beyond your vision, think of the wonderful world. Count your blessings.

Thursday, July 23, 2020

Renew Your Love

My son is getting married in a few days to the love of his life in a small, intimate ceremony thus giving up their big dream wedding. However, they plan to hold a Renewal of their Vows next year on their one year anniversary in front of 100 or so family and friends. 


Renewing wedding vows is a beautiful way to celebrate love and add romance to a marriage. Some may chose to use it as an opportunity to wash away sins of the past and start over. In 2016, Linda Marx wrote a good article for the NY Times about the reasons Why Couples Decide to Renew Their Vows. The reasons hold true today.

Hubby and I discussed the topic of Renewing our Vows before. Once before son #2 was... ahem... made, we were in Barbados and witnessed several couples renewing their vows. I tried to talk him into it, but he claimed, "Which date would we celebrate our anniversary?" 

I like the idea of renewing wedding vows. It's a simple and romantic way to reaffirm your love for each other. As for the ceremony, there are no rules. No paperwork to file! You can wear whatever you want! You can include rings if you wish but don't have to. I would include at least mine. Hubby had the center stone from my original ring turned into a new, beautiful ring a couple years ago. I'd love to have it blessed and placed on my hand as he gazes lovingly into my eyes. *Sigh*

Maybe I can talk hubby into a little ceremony on a beach somewhere with our kids standing with us. What a wonderful way to honor our 30 years of marriage!

Would you renew your vows? Where would you do it? What would it be like?

In April of this year, Michelle M. Winner wrote an article, 
if you need a few ideas and pointers.



Wednesday, July 22, 2020

The Sisterhood of the Traveling Wirecutters

With the dream wedding canceled due to covid an ancient pair of wire-cutters comes to the rescue.

After a year long engagement, 
a hundred plus guest were looking forward to the marriage 
of my son and his high-school sweetheart. 

Then Covid-19 hit and we were suffocated by tight social restrictions. After much thought, a small intimate ceremony has been planned on the date the big celebration was to take place. I really want to make the day special for the couple and wondered how to pull it off.

My sister grabbed a familiar pair of wire-cutters and punched the sky while yelling, "We got this!"

Ann is 14 years older then me and claims to be much wiser. However, she is hands down the most  creative sibling. The wire-cutters belonged to our mom who was a floral designer for a popular florist in town. When Mom passed, Ann inherited the wire-cutters while the floral pruning shears went to me. Together the tools were used on many floral arrangements over the years. Mom used the floral wire to hold long stemmed roses in place and eventually used her wire-cutters when designing silk bouquets.

The wire-cutters have made their round through the family; cousins, aunts, grandmothers making floral decorations for weddings, showers, family reunions, etc.
Working together in my dining room, Ann shared some of her creativity and vast knowledge with Jordie who has some natural craft skills and hungry to learn. Silk flowers and soft greens soon became lovely wedding decorations and bouquets.
Another special event decorated and family bonds strengthened by that old floral tool.



Monday, July 20, 2020

Hot #NewRelease to Benefit Navajo Nation COVID-19 Fund

Ten, never-before-released short stories fill The Glittering World Charity Anthology with tales that will take you away. Created with love, authors S.E. Smith, Elle Boon, Trinity Blacio, Jamie K. Schmidt, Stephanie Burke, Wendi Zwaduk, Lia Violet, Kate Richards, L. Loren, and Barb Shuler have teamed up to support The Navajo Nation fundraising efforts in their fight against COVID-19. These ten unique Paranormal and Futuristic Romance stories are filled with diverse characters you can’t help but fall in love with from a Navajo god to futuristic tales of romance The Glittering World Charity Anthology has a story for everyone. Click now to purchase your limited-time copy TODAY!

All the proceeds from this anthology will be donated to The Navajo Nation COVID-19 Fund.

Come join the fun, sassy and sometimes heated worlds today and find a new hero or heroine to fall in love while helping a fantastic charity that benefits the Navajo Nation!


 The Warrior's Whisper by S.E. Smith A lone, modern-day warrior falls in love with the beautiful maiden who saves his life only to realize that she may not be real.

The Wolf Healer by Lia Violet A DNA test leads to a Navajo shifter pack where a woman finds not only her mate, but danger awaiting her.

The Night of the Coyote Moon by Trinity Blacio Two lonely hearts are destined to find each other, but will that be enough?

Craving by Wendi Zwaduk Two powerful entities discover love is not limited to humans alone.

The The Alpha's Challenge by Jamie K. Schmidt Defeating Skinwalkers would have been a breeze if Alpha werewolf, Nizhoni wasn't in the grip of the mating heat—with two men.

The Nadleehi by Stephanie Burke Love crosses the boundaries between the physical and spiritual world when the Monster Slayer answers the call of a human searching for his place in the world.  

Her Way Home by Kate Richards I should have never left—will he be there when I find the strength to return?

The Pack Lands by Barb Shuler The leader of a wolf pack and his mate must guide their wolf pack to a new life in a far off land if they hope to survive.

Sunset Moons by L. Loren True love transcends time, space and even death.

Choosing His Mate by Elle Boon A hot, heart-warming shifter romance about finding love and family where you least expect it.

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Share the Love - Authors Band Together to Help Native Nation

Born and raised in Michigan with deep family roots, Michigan Native Americans and my family history wove together creating my family tapestry. After the Civil War, my great, great, grandpa settled on some land in the southwestern side of the state. At the time, an Ottawa tribe was living on the land he purchased. He hated the way the government treated the native people and was tired from the war. Refusing to make them leave, saying the land was theirs first. He was sure they could teach him a thing or two about living. His wife and the chief's wife became fast friends, relationships developed. My grt, grt gram learned about gardening and healing herbs from the chief's wife. Gramp learned about the land and how to live again. Both practical and spiritual knowledge has passed through the generations. 

Great-great Grandma, Agatha Snyder

Local Native Americans influenced my life early on. I spent my summers at Coldwater Lake with Gram. "Indian Dave" lived next door and worked for Central Michigan University. He was also an active member of his Chippewa tribe. He and friends would tour grade schools to present programs on local history. My favorite moments were when he'd visit my uncle and end up teaching my cousins and me a dance or thrilling us with a legend. I would often argue, in the way a ten year old would, with him on which animal was my spirit guide.

Native American's have always held and still hold a special place in my heart. There is a little Blackfoot and Seminole in my family tree. It hurts to hear of the pain the Navajo Nation is currently experiencing during this troubling time. 

Spanning portions of Arizona, New Mexico and Utah, the 27,000-square-mile Navajo Nation is home to 180,000 people served by just 13 grocery stores and four hospitals. An estimated 40 percent of reservation households are without running water and/or electricity. Before COVID-19 arrived, Native Americans were already at a distinct disadvantage. According to a recent report by the U.S. Commission on Civil Rights, broken treaties with the federal government have “left many reservations without adequate access to clean water, plumbing, electricity, internet, cellular service, roads, public transportation, housing, hospitals, and schools.”

The first case of the coronavirus in the Navajo Nation was reported on March 17. Within days the number was well over 100. By mid-May the rate of infection on the reservation had surpassed that of New York and New Jersey, known as the epicenter of the pandemic. The Navajo people, already saddled with high rates of disease, poverty and unemployment, were ill-equipped to contain a highly infectious virus.

Taken from an article written by David Kidd, Photojournalist and Storyteller, July 16, 2020. 

View full article HERE


Some romance authors were inspired to help and when I heard about their project I wanted to help share it. Created with love, authors S.E. Smith, Elle Boon, Trinity Blacio, Jamie K. Schmidt, Stephanie Burke, Wendi Zwaduk, Lia Violet, Kate Richards, L. Loren, and Barb Shuler have teamed up to support The Navajo Nation fundraising efforts in their fight against COVID-19. These ten unique Paranormal and Futuristic Romance stories are filled with diverse characters you can’t help but fall in love with from a Navajo god to futuristic tales of romance The Glittering World Charity Anthology has a story for everyone. 

RELEASE DAY IS TOMORROW!

OR

Click now to purchase your limited-time copy TODAY!

All the proceeds from this anthology will be donated to The Navajo Nation COVID-19 Fund.

Come join the fun, sassy and sometimes heated worlds today and find a new hero or heroine to fall in love while helping a fantastic charity that benefits the Navajo Nation!

BUY TODAY!

AMAZON

B&N




Saturday, July 18, 2020

Survival Of The Fittest

A girls' weekend is simple. We don't pay attention to time. Comfy pajamas, beer, wine and chocolate are well stocked.

  My beverage was Michato in a Yeti cup. Sweet, cool and crisp. Perfect with feet in a Great Lake. We collected pieces of alabaster washed ashore to add to our memories.

After a day at the beach we break the rules and have sweets before dinner.

           Tammie made a decadent cake.
Amy's brother...the infamous Luciuos Larry LaFrambroise enjoyed a piece of Better Than Sex cake. Hmmmm....look at that orgasmic glow. 😉

I'll feature the recipe later and sorry ladies, Larry is off the market. 



“There are times when we stop, we sit still. We listen and breezes from a whole other world begin to whisper.” —James Carroll


Life's A Beach

What does my Street Team do when covid crap is too much to take and hormones are being a bitch to live with?
They head to the beach! #UpNorth is a place Michiganders go to "get away from it all".

Walking distance from the old Alabaster Church the breeze blew in some wonderful waves.
Lake Huron called to us as we meandered along a well traveled foot path.

A good Street Team member always brings a book to read.

Deb, Amy, Kendra & Tammie - badass chicks.

5 hours of water therapy cleansed our souls.
Me & my girls minus Deb taking the pic.

 Simply being together, lots of laughs broken up by a few serious discussions, strengthened our bonds of friendship and empowered us as women.

Friday, July 17, 2020

Girl Time Out

Taking time to spend with your best girlfriends is not only special but important to your health. 

Spending time with good friends reduces stress levels.
I think spending time with friends at the lake is just what the the doctor ordered. 

I'll share what we ate drinking, later.😉

Thursday, July 16, 2020

Blueberries? Wine Not?

Sometimes the lack of patience overcomes me.
I wanted a cool glass of wine but the fridge was bare of vino. So like a bad girl, I added a couple of ice cubes to my glass. I grabbed a handful of fresh berries and tossed them in my mouth. As I bit down, freezing cold shot through my jaw. Holy cow! Someone had turned up the temp of the veggie drawer.
Hmmm... I grabbed another handful of berries and dropped them into my glass then added the wine. 



The wine chilled nicely, abet watered down. As I finished my beverage, the treat of wine soaked berries awaited my consumption. And oh, what a treat it was!

Leelanau Cellers is one of my favorite wineries located in Northern Michigan. Their Riesling wines are some of the most sought after wines in the state. Semi-sweet wine with ribbons of seasonal fruit such as peaches, apples, or pears ready to wrap your senses into a delightful bow.

The Tall Ship family of wines honors the heritage of the tall ships, or schooners, that were common on the Great Lakes. The huge canvas sails of these ships were truly majestic and became representative of a nostalgic escape to a time and age when fine craftsmanship reigned.

WINE TIP: 
The Tall Ship Riesling is a late harvest fruit layered wine. Great enjoyed alone or with your honey. Try pairing it with cheese and smoked fish. 

WINE TIP:
To cool wine quickly, place a strainer with ice cubes over a glass. Pour wine. As the wine passes the ice and through the strainer, the temperature cools without watering the wine down.