Monday Mojo - When the dude needs some inches

Many men who are concerned with their penis's small stature suffer from "dysmorphophobia," a condition where people see some imaginary flaw in physical appearance as real — in this case a false perception of penis inadequacy, the researchers say.

According to LiveScience's Bad Medicine columnist, Christopher Wanjek, "Many men long to have something longer, even though few have a penis that is too small to copulate or pleasure their partner. This anxiety over size is called penile dysmorphophobia, and it is on the rise worldwide as men turn to pornography and compare notes."

Today many men turn to Penis Extenders. Ads plaster various magazines with promises. The issue of what works and what doesn't has even made the national news.

Here's a bit of interesting SEX TRIVIA:

PENIS EXTENDERS -

During the height of the Roman Empire around 300AD penis extenders were invented in the East. These sexual aids were for men who had erectile problems and still wanted to pleasure their partners. These extenders, which fit over men’s penises, were first mentioned in the Indian sex manual, the Kama Sutra.

Humpday Hottie - Wine Anybody?

Brrrr... I'm sick of winter. I could really go for a cup of hot wine.

Not exactly what I meant, but I'll take it!

Tasty Tuesday - Hot Chocolate Covered Cherry

Here in Michigan and across the country the temps are low and the snow is deep. After the morning coffee is finished, I clean out the pot and fill with water. I try to keep a pot of hot water available all day for my snowmen to enjoy a cup of hot cocoa when they come in from the cold. 

While at the grocery the other day, I checked out the discounted liqueur and found a bottle of Michigan Cherry.

An decadent idea came to me.

Make a cup of hot cocoa (I prefer Hersey's Dark Chocolate Cocoa)

Add 1 TBSP of coffee creamer

Add 1 shot (or more) of the Cherry liqueur

Feel free to top with whipping cream & a cherry.

I call it a Hot Chocolate Covered Cherry.  

Monday Mojo- Cock Ring Trivia

 COCK RING - A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm. Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber.

The Chinese have always been known for their historic out of the box sexual practices.  During the Jin and Song Dynasties in 1200AD the cock ring made its way into the public life.  Apparently, the first documented rings were made from the eyelids of goats with eyelashes intact.

Ewe!!!

No... goat.

Friday Flirt

Going out for the first time or have a blind date?

Here's a couple simple tips to read a guy's flirting.

The head tilt. If your date tilts his head slightly when he looks at you, you can bet he's subconsciously showing you he likes you.

The eyebrow flash. In other words, watch for your man to lift his eyebrows when he looks over at you. Though subtle, men tend to lift their eyebrows quickly when they see someone they're attracted to. 

Tuesday Teaser - Sex, Lies, and Vampires by Katie MacAlister

After falling in love with Katie MacAlister’s writing style and characters I HAD to have more. So… the next time I took Mom to the book store, I found another. This book was originally published in 2005.

Sex, Lies, And Vampires

 I love the quirky heroine in this story, the 3^rd book in The Dark Ones series. (Yep… still haven’t picked up the 1^st yet.) This book was so fun to read, I couldn’t put it down. Perfect with a glass of red wine, a comfy blanket and cozy chair on a cold winter day.

Nell is a historian...and a charmer. When she inadvertently becomes involved with the supernatural world, Nell meets a Dark One (vampire) known as The Betrayer. Despite the scary title, The Betrayer (actually named Adrian) is incredibly sexy, and the chemistry between them becomes overwhelming. There is a lot of sexual tension and loads of romance. He tries to show his big bad self that all should fear, and she responds by calling him a fluffy pet name like sugarpants. Throw in some re-animated mummies, demons, kidnappings, and misunderstandings and you have the basic plotline of Sex, Lies and Vampires.

 

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Monday Mojo - Golden Love

Every Tuesday I visit my 86 year old mother 

who lives in a retirement community with many other people in their golden years. 

Almost a third of all women over 80 years of age 

still have sex with their spouse or boyfriend.

I really didn't need to know that information.

But...

they are cute!

Please Help Molly - Medical Expenses at Vet

Molly is a small 5 year old chocolate lab who has a tumor on her lip. The tumor is growing while her family's funds are depleting. Her surgery is Feb. 17 but her family is trying to move it sooner. Please help this sweet little girl.

Please help via YouCaring.com medical fundraiser to help Molly be tumor free.

CLICK HERE

Molly with her most favorite person in the world.

Thursday Thirteen - 13 Tips for a Romantic Bath

I LOVE baths! 

 I bet you can't guess what inspired today's post.  LOL

Taking a bath together in winter is as sexy as skinny-dipping.

It's also a great idea for a "cheap date night".

1. Rose Petals
   One of the most common symbols for romance, the rose is not only a beautiful addition to your bath water and/or bath area it is delightfully fragrant as well.
2. Bubble Bath
   Bubble bath comes in so many varieties it can be hard to choose the right one. If you know your partner has a special favorite, use that one. If not, try something a little creative like bubble bath in a champagne bottle.
3. Mood Music
   Initiate a romantic environment with a little calm and relaxing mood music. Many stores offer nature or mood themed music. Pick out a CD that will help you create the exact mood you desire.
4. Candlelight
   Restore that healthy glow with a liberal sprinkling of candlelight. Tea lights are easy to use, make little mess and are easy to throw away once cooled. Don't place candles where you may splash water on them.
5. Bath Loofah or Accessories
   Why not give each other the ultimate bath and spa experience with a little skin pampering? Go shopping together and pick out a few fun bath products in a scent you both love
6.  Skin Care Take care of each others' skin and try new exfoliation products or other skin improving products. Pay special attention to each other's elbows, knees, hands and feet. Make your own product with sugar and lick it off.

7.                    7.  Hair Care  The scalp is an erogenous zone. Give each other a complete hair washing, including combing out their hair during the conditioning process. 

8.    8.  Champagne
Celebrate your time together with a romantic toast. Use this couple time to renew promises or vows with each other. Or, just revel in actually having couple time.

9. Try a fun, sensual bath game. I'm not going into detail here. *wink, wink*
10. Warm, Fluffy Towels
    Put your towels in the dryer for a few minutes for a warm and toasty after-bath treat.
    Take turns drying each other off for a more intimate experience.
11. Mood Inviting Bath Soak
    Bath soaks are usually a blend of ingredients you add to your bath water to create a desired effect, such as a sore muscle soak, stress-easing soak or relaxation soak. Most bath and body and drug stores carry bath soak products.
12. Privacy
    A romantic moment is easily ruined with unwanted disruptions. Arrange your water play encounter at a time when you can be together alone. A great way to do this and create the perfect memorable night is staying at hotel with a spa or Jacuzzi tub in your room.

13. Shower Power When you don't have time to take a nice bubble bath with your partner, opt for a nice, hot, candlelit shower with incense and music. This is wonderful for mornings because it refreshes the mind for the day.

Humpday Hottie - In the mood for a Vamp

Ahh... Stuart Townsend as Lestat de Lioncour is my all-time fav.

Do you have a favorite vampire?