1. Try
a bit of bondage. Being tied up means
you are at the mercy of your partner’s urges, which can be exciting. You can focus entirely on being pleasured
since you’re not able to reciprocate.
Let yourself be his sexy toy.
Remind him that he’s in control and responsible for getting you off.
2. Blindfolds
and scarves. Tie him up and place a soft
blindfold over his eyes. While he’s
lying naked at your mercy, touch him softly with feathers, your fingers, your
tongue, and tell him what you’re doing.
3. Give
him a peep show. This can be done two
different ways. A. Masturbate alone but
don’t let yourself climax. Greet him naked;
let him see the flush all over your body.
In a husky voice, describe to him what you were doing. Or…B. Let him watch you masturbate and let
him finish you off.
4. Give
him his own personal lap dance. Touch
yourself in all of yours and his favorite spots. Some dirty dancing will not only make you
feel sexy but it’ll make him hot as well.
5. Manhandle
him. Surprise him with a hand job when
he least expects it such as when he’s relaxing on the couch or on the phone.
6. Have
strange sex. I don’t mean weird sex, but
pretend you don’t know each other. You
know… role playing. Set up a time to
meet at a particular bar. As you make
your way to him, flirt with a few guys.
Introduce yourself; even make up a name and character you want to play. Role playing can push both of you out of
your comfort zone and possibly enjoy sensations and positions you wouldn’t
normally try together.
7. Play
the innocent. If you want to have more
fun role playing, pretend one of you is innocent and is in need of sex
lessons. Prepare for a very X-Rated
tutorial.
8. New
views and new angles. Take the action to
the living room couch. Try standing-up
sex in this semipublic room, it’ll feel a bit naughty. Keep in mind this is the room where your
parents and friends will be sitting.
9. Give
him the “Oh, my God” erotic view. Start
in a seated position on the couch, straddle him, and then place his hands on
your hips to keep you secure. Lean all
the way back so your head is down by his feet.
You can put your hands on the floor for extra support, then rest your
feet on the back of the couch.
10. Continue
exploring the various rooms in the house.
You will find you will be forced to accommodate your positions to
different obstacles.
11. Ambushing
your guy. Pounce on him when he gets out
of the shower. Nothing smells or tastes
as nice as a clean man! Or slip into the
bathroom and strike a seductive pose in your birthday suit. When he pulls aside the curtain, he’ll be
surprised with the stunning scenery.
12. Sexting. Next time you go out to dinner tell him you
left something in the car. Once outside,
text him that you need his help with something.
When he comes out, pull him into the car and go at it. (You might want to be in a remote part of the
parking lot.)
13. Sexy
talk. Tell him how you feel during
sex. Verbalizing the sensation brings
your attention to it, which reinforces the pleasure you’re experiencing. “I’m coming” is a simple but magical phrase
for a man to hear; he’s pleased he’s gotten you so aroused that you’re out of
control.
