So many New Year Resolutions are made and quickly forgotten.
Not only are these promises easily forgotten when we are caught up in the
hustle of everyday life, but also we can forget about the love in our lives. Try
making a few resolutions that won't be forgotten and easily obtainable. Make
your relationship with that special someone a priority, put pleasure first on
your resolution list.
1. Plan to have more
sex. We schedule time to shop, get our hair done, and take the kids to soccer...
Being spontaneous is not always easy and by some simple plans to be more
sexual, you'll actually end up having more sex.
2. Get away from it all. Send the kids away for the weekend
or escape for a night alone. Grab a movie, dinner and a romp in a cheap hotel.
Use this time to NOT talk about family, friends or work. Focus on each other.
3. Do some redecorating in the bedroom. Our surrounding have
a significant impact on how we feel. Turn your bedroom into a sensual room. Add
some sexy satins, new pillows, mirrors, incense or candles, artwork to create
an environment to bring out your sexual animal.
4. Exercise more. I'm
talkin' the horizontal mambo three /four times a week. Not only are calories
being burned in a super fun way, but with each orgasmic session your endorphins
(the chemical in your brain that makes you happy) will do miracles for your
mood and zest for life!
5. Stop the sensory deprivations. Get off the computer; turn
off the cell phone, put down the e-reader. It's time to get your hands into
life! Cook with your honey and savor every tasty moment. Inhale life's scents
and enjoy the fragrance of the world around you whether it is a sensual perfume
or the way the air smells after a rain shower. Gaze into your partner's eyes
and drown in the lipid pools of desire.
6. Save your money and give each other full body massages. Invest
in some scented massage candles and let your inhibitions fly out the window. Pick
up some edible massage oil. Don't leave out the happy ending!
7. Eat in bed. Whipped cream, chocolate body paint, honey
dust! Decadent and suggestive foods coupled with steamy sex make a rather
delicious combination.
8. Make food a sensual part of your life. Forget the chips
and go for the juicy, creamy and succulent stuff. Fresh strawberries, ripe
peaches, and bananas can be cut into bite sizes. Finger food can be very
sensual; take your time eating to experience the textures and flavors. Savoring
food can be great practice for savoring sex.
10. Make yourself
feel sexier every day. Go through your panty drawer and buy yourself some new
sexier styles. Lose the flannels, the old rugby jersey and stop lounging about
with holey socks. Try some sexy silk pajamas or simple lingerie you can wear
under your clothes. Treating yourself to sexier underclothes will help you tap
into your sexy side. Indulge in a new fragrance that makes your partner hot. Wax,
shave, work out... whatever makes you feel good about yourself and sexy.
11. Have an affair -
with your partner of course! Here's your
chance to have fun with a sexual fantasy.
Share your fantasies with each other or create one together then act on
them. Dress as a seductive stranger and meet at a secret
location, hotel, or bar. Have fun with
costumes, they can be just what you need to get started.
12. Get back to the
basics. Rediscover the art of
kissing. Spend a night simply
"making out". Just be careful
if you go "parking". Be open
and honest with your partner by sharing what really turns you on. Be romantic by leaving notes with hints and
sexy suggestions where your honey will find them. Take time to explore each other's bodies to
learn likes and dislikes. Be open to
pleasure.
13. Be more playful
and creative. Try something sexually new. Play with sex toys. Visit a swingers' club. Get a book on sexual positions and try all of
them at least once. For a more spiritual
sex life, study Kama Sutra. Take a class
on strip tease or belly dancing. Pick up
a couple sex games and play. Feel free
to visit your local adult store, the staff is very discreet and helpful.
Author's Note: My favorite shop is Lovers' Lane. I feel comfortable working with the staff and
have enjoyed every purchase! 
HAVE A SEXY NEW YEAR!
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