Tuesday, November 10, 2020

#TastyTuesday - Pumpkin Cheesecake Bars

I always say to take advantage of cooking up a batch of romance in the kitchen. 
It's a great opportunity for some fun "couple time". 
Enjoy a glass of chardonnay while making this recipe.
If you're a beer lover, 
try Screamin' Pumpkin from the Griffin Claw Brewing Co 

Here's a tasty little sweet you and your honey can make in advance to your Thanksgiving dinner.

Base
1 cup all-purpose flour
3/4 cup packed brown sugar
1/2 cup butter or margarine
1 cup quick-cooking oats
1/2 cup finely chopped walnuts

Filling
1 package (8 oz) cream cheese, softened
3/4 cup sugar
1 can (15 oz) pumpkin (not pumpkin pie mix)
1 1/2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
1 teaspoon ground ginger
3 eggs

Topping
2 cups sour cream
1/3 cup sugar
1/2 teaspoon vanilla

1.    Heat oven to 350°F. Spray 13x9-inch pan with cooking spray. In medium bowl, mix flour and brown sugar. Using pastry blender, cut in butter until mixture looks like coarse crumbs. Stir in oats and walnuts. Press in bottom of pan; bake 15 minutes.

2.    In large bowl, beat filling ingredients with electric mixer on medium speed until well blended. Pour over hot base. Bake 20 to 25 minutes or until set and dry in center.

3.    Meanwhile, in small bowl, mix topping ingredients. Drop mixture by the spoonful over the pumpkin layer; spread evenly over hot filling. Bake about 5 minutes or until topping is set. Cool completely, about 2 hours. Cut into 4 rows by 4 rows. Store covered in refrigerator.

Makes 16 bars

 Screamin' Pumpkin captures the essence of a Michigan Fall with smooth taste. Cloves, cinnamon, nutmeg, roasted pumpkin and a dab of molasses makes it perfect for an autumn day or night. Griffin Claw Brewing is located in the Rail District of Birmingham, MI.
This year, the brewery took the Screamin' Pumpkin and aged it in bourbon barrels for 10 months. It has a bit of a vanilla, oak and spice flavor. I can't wait to try a Bourbon Imperial Screamin' Pumpkin!

Monday, November 9, 2020

Hot Apple Cider For Cool Autumn Nights

A lovely fall day is perfect for you and your honey to visit a local orchard. 
Go on a hayride, nibble on some pumpkin doughnuts and drink fresh cider. 
Enjoy hot cider under the stars at night.

I picked up some fresh apple cider during a recent visit to my local orchard (Montrose Orchards). Mulled Cider is a perfect warm autumn drink to enjoy while snuggling under a blanket on the porch.  This hottie toddy gives a quiet opportunity to warm up with some spice and romance. 
 



Ingredients
  • 1 apple
  • 2 teaspoons whole cloves
  • 1 orange, thinly sliced
  • 2 quarts apple cider
  • 1/2 cup light brown sugar
  • 1 teaspoon allspice
  • Pinch grated nutmeg
  • 1 cup dark rum
  • Cinnamon sticks, garnish
  • Directions

    Stud the apple with the cloves. In a medium pot, combine the studded apple and remaining ingredients except the rum. Slowly bring to a simmer over low heat. Simmer for 10 minutes. Remove from the heat and add the rum. Discard the apple. Ladle into mugs and garnish each with a cinnamon stick. Serve immediately.



    Check with local orchards regarding current covid restrictions.

    Sunday, November 8, 2020

    JM Madden Gave Me A Book Hangover

    I LOVE JM Madden
    She's the queen of Military Romance. 

    Hot heroes and amazing stories.

    BUT...
    I'm mad at her right now.

    Last night I thought I'd read a couple chapters to relax in bed before lights out. I figured, I'd pick a book I've read before so I wouldn't "get sucked in" to the story and not be able to put it down.

    So I opened my Kindle to the Lost and Found story Embattled SEAL.


    When Harper Preston finds himself flat in a hospital bed after a botched op, he’s okay with dealing with the fallout. If he dies, he’s lived well past his expiration date. The only people that will notice his passing are the guys he works with at Lost and Found Investigative Service. 

    Then his estranged wife arrives. 

    Cat Preston is thankful and horrified when she’s called to her husband’s side. He’s been shot. Again. But now that she’s found him she’s going to make the most of the opportunity. If it were up to Harper, she would be out of his life completely because he thinks it's the best thing for the family. 

    With a little SEAL abduction (for his own good of course) maybe she can convince him otherwise...

    The book is AWESOME!!!!

    I didn't stop reading until 3am!
    I didn't even take a potty break!

    Now I'm suffering a major Book Hangover AGAIN!
    My eyes are all buggy and my brain is fried with need to read more!

    Please, PLEASE... pick up this book...
    I got mine on Amazon.
    Pick up all of the books in the Lost and Found series for that matter.

    When you sit down to read, make sure you have a snack and a bottle of water handy.
    Use the bathroom before opening the cover.
    Put a friend or loved one on guard duty, a bomb could go off and you wouldn't know.

    I GUARENTEE you won't be able to put it down once you start.



    Check out the books on Goodreads

    Thanks for another sleepless night JM Madden. 
    It was worth it.


    Saturday, November 7, 2020

    Colors of Autumn Romance

     My artist's eye loves the colors of Autumn. The rich golds of leaves, dark red berries left on bushes and all the glorious colors of produce.

    Fall flowers add color and fragrance.

    Look at the gorgeous color of this red onion harvested from my son's garden.
    It matches my nail polish! LOL

    The color of autumn wines match the season.
    I like to celebrate the beauty of fall with
    spiced apple wine and my sweet Flyboy.


    Grab your honey and make a trip to your local produce stand or better yet, visit the orchard. Go on a hayride or simply enjoy wandering about. Take in all the wonderful colors and scents of the season. Take time to sip some cider and nibble on doughnuts or caramel apples. Romance is all around you in beautiful color!


    Friday, November 6, 2020

    Books to Add to Winter Reading List

     I have a couple books to add to your Winter TBR pile. Yesterday, romance author Marie McKinney stopped by for a chat. Check out the interview HERE. She has two books out now and one coming in November. She captures emotions and drama perfectly.

    An emotional first
    & second chance romance.

    If you can’t fall in love in Paris, where can you?

    Emily Chambers ran away to Paris to heal her broken heart. Because, really, where better to do that than the city of love? Just her luck she finds the perfect crush in a French tour guide… Just in time to bid him adieu. That’s okay. A few perfect days together and a few swoon worthy memories to last her forever, she’ll take that. Only… Emily finds herself toting home something a little more permanent than her Eiffel Tower key-chain.

    Nick Wyatt wasn’t looking for love but that’s exactly what he finds in a bubbly, doe-eyed, big-hearted brunette. Problem is, she’s leaving in a few days. Bigger problem is she thinks he’s a French tour-guide named Jean-Luc. A not-so-chance reunion two years later leads to a second chance.
    This time he’s not letting her slip through his fingers.

    BUY NOW ON AMAZON

    *****************************************

    1st book in the Wilde Men series


    When Magdalena was a little girl, the worse thing she could imagine was never knowing who her father was. Then she grew up and met him.
    Now with the threat of what’s left of her family being ripped apart, she’s forced to wed his rival to stop a brewing war from imploding a world she never knew existed.

    When the girl he’d pledged to marry was murdered, Aidan Wilde swore he would never share his life with anyone else. He promised her he’d dedicate every breath to ruining her killer. Who would have thought that in order to do the second he’d have to break his promise about the first? But that doesn’t mean he’s going to give away his heart.

    He’s not the husband she wanted but he’s the one she needs.
    She’s not the wife he wanted but she’s the one he’s owed.
    Together Magdalena and Aidan could be a force to be reckoned with.
    But first they have to get out of their own way.

    BUY NOW ON AMAZON

    ***********************************************

    Book 2 of the Wilde Men series

    Sometimes the most courageous thing you can do is love someone enough to stay.

    Kate’s spent all her life being the responsible one. The one who left the risk taking to everyone else. With a mother who followed her gut down every shiny road made of fool’s gold, a father who’d left her before she was born, and a string of failed relationships, she knows the real risk is relying on others. Especially when it comes to her heart.
    Then Sloan Wilde blows into her life and he’s the one risk she can’t afford not to take.

    Former Marine, Sloan Wilde knew what it was like to have his entire world ripped out from underneath his feet. Orphaned at twelve years old, he’s spent so much time protecting his heart from the devastation that comes with loving someone and then losing them that he hasn’t spared a thought towards finding his forever someone.
    Then in a blur of serendipity she walks into his life, steals his convictions, and turns his heart inside out.
    Now he just has to convince her to stay.

    One’s afraid to love.
    The other’s afraid to lose the ones he loves.
    But fate is a fickle mistress and the past has a way of coming full circle. Only time can teach them the true meaning of courage...And they’re running out of it.

    Coming in November

    Thursday, November 5, 2020

    On Deck - Marie McKinney Chats About The Arrangement

     


    The evening light is upon us and the fire table is lit. I have a special guest on the deck today so please welcome Marie McKinney. She used to be a counselor but her own mind turned her into a romance author. You will find the human drama that makes life interesting in the contemporary and paranormal romances she writes. 

    I love the diverse characters from different backgrounds she creates and helps them fall in love. Her book,  After Paris captures all that plus emotional twists and turns with a second chance romance.

     

    I’m so excited Marie has a new book out and she’s here today to tell us about it. The Arrangement was released in August. She has joined me at the high-top fire table for drinks. She’s enjoying a Vanilla Coke with Tennessee Honey Jack Daniels. I decided to have one too since I’m a sucker for Vanilla Coke. We have a bowl of Reese’s Peanut Butter cups between us. Marie and Flyboy share the love of these wonderful sweets. Lucky for us, he’s out flying thus leaving all the Reese’s for us!

     

    Thanks for joining us, Marie. Since the temps are going down, I’m going dive right into this. I know you have After Paris and now the 1st book in the Wilde Men series but how many books to you have prior to these?

     

    The Arrangementis not my first book but it is only the second book I’ve written under my name. I started writing professionally as a ghostwriter in 2012 and did that for a few years until that little voice in the back of my head said, “Enough. Don’t you want to see your name on your work?” In all I’ve probably written somewhere in the neighborhood of fifteen or sixteen books. I’m not real sure since once it’s approved by the client, I’d ceremoniously let it go, delete the file, say goodbye and move on. A nice little figurative trashcan fire of my ex’s things. 

     

    I’ll drink to that! *We clink glasses and take a drink* It’s crazy how the mind works. What inspired you to write your latest book, The Arrangement?

     

    Usually the characters come to me before the story, with this one though, it was the other way around. I wanted to write an arranged marriage trope but make it modern day and realistic. The only scene I “borrowed” from real life is the opening scene with Maggie at work and her customers chanting “salad, salad” at her. My niece worked as a waitress while putting herself through med-school and was always blessed with the most interesting customers. The restaurant Black Tin Roof will show up from time to time and most of that comes from her fabulous rendition of life in the service industry.

     

    I love basing fiction on the reality in my life. Good for your niece and her inspiration. Do you give her a cut of the fame?

     

    No she doesn’t get royalties, but I do give the best Christmas presents. Lol. 

     

    I’d rather have the wonderful gifts. LOL Sounds like you have a nice arrangement. LOL See what I did there. LOL How did you come up with the title, TheArrangement?

     

    Laziness was my inspiration, lol. “The Arrangement” for a story about an Arranged Marriage.

     

    I think it sounds a little dirty, in a sexy way. I love your character names, Magdalena and Aidan. How do you come up with your characters’ names?

     

    Sometimes it just comes to me and those times I have to be careful and check my long list of already used character names to make sure I’m not double dipping, or repeating consonants. Once I had a Diana, Deirdre and Daniel all in the same book, no lie. Apparently, that month was represented by the letter “D.” When I’m stuck on a new name, usually the character’s backstory helps me. Even if that backstory isn’t used in the actual novel. Magdalena and her sisters Miriam and Guinevere had a young mom who fantasized about being rescued by Robin Hood or a literal knight in shining armor hence the names. 

     

    Oooh, I love the story behind the story, or I should say…the story behind the name. Hey, if you could have any movie star take on a role of one of your characters who do you think it would be?

     

    AHhh. I don’t know! I never visualize my characters as actors or actresses. I know, I’m the only one in the world. They always appear in my mind’s eye as themselves, though, so I really don’t know.

     

    Come to think of it, my characters look more like regular people than movie starts. Anyways… back to your writing. How naughty do you get with your stories?

     

    I consider myself pretty middle of the line. I don’t fade out and close the door but I’m not pulling out whips and chains and making them beg in excruciating detail. There are sex scenes, they get pretty steamy, there’s a lot of build-up and intimacy even when they’re not having sex. But I think everyone has their own way of rating so my just enough might be someone else’s whoa buddy. Only one way to find out, hint hint, nudge nudge. Lol. 

     

    The build-up makes a scene even more intense and sexy. Yes, friends, you need to dive into The Arrangement to find out! Now, Marie, you like to take readers on an emotional ride and do it well. What would you say were difficult scenes to write?

     

    The second chapter when her sisters are getting loaded into a car and taken away. That scene took the longest because it punched me in the cry-box every time. Especially when Maggie settles her little sister who has Autism and sends her off, knowing she can’t explain why they’re not going together. I have an eight-year-old on the spectrum and I might have over-personalized the moment, imagining how he might feel.

     

    Personal things like that pull a reader in. As an author, I know how research goes when writing so what is the strangest thing you’ve Googled while working on a story?

     

    This story was pretty tame. The wackiest it got was putting together the Kilabarian language. But I have had stories that would get me convicted on an episode of CSI. The strangest thing I’ve ever googled for a novel was “How much of the body remains after a house-fire.”

     

    Hopefully “big brother” isn’t watching you. LOL Do you have any rituals to must haves while you are writing?

     

    Each book is different. I’ve had books where I’ve had to write it the old-fashioned way, pen and paper. Then there were books where I powered through with chocolate and snacks. Luckily those are few and far between. The Arrangement wanted to wake me up in the middle of the night for just one more scene that could not wait. All my recent work, though, does not get started or completed without my grandmother’s picture siting right in front of me.

     

    Okay…now for some fun stuff. What’s your favorite food?

     

    Ice cream. Any. All. Vanilla with sprinkles. Birthday cake. Chocolate Chip cookie dough. Ooo Ben and Jerry’s used to have this flavor: sweet cream ice cream with cashews but they were coated in something first. If I had a genie, I’d completely waste a wish on bringing that sucker back. 

     

    Oh, girl… we are going to be best friends! I have a freezer dedicated to ice cream! LOL What is your favorite thing to wear?

     

    Leggings

     

    Yes! Nothing is better than wearing leggings and curling up with a good book such as The Arrangement. Where is you favorite place to read?

     

    I live in the south, there are very few days I have the need for a fireplace. Still. I imagine curling up on my couch in front of a roaring fire, reading away. In reality it’s my bed. Lol.

     

    You need to visit my log home in the wood in the middle of winter. Flyboy will build us a nice fire in the fireplace, make us Jack and vanilla cokes, and make sure we have cuddly blankets handy. Oh, Flyboy wanted me to ask you, what place would you like to visit some day?

     

    It’s on my bucket-list to write underneath an Irish sunrise. Or sunset. Ireland and sun. Wildflowers. Fields.

     

    Flyboy has been there and said it’s definitely worth it. Do you have any special words for your readers today?

     

    Hi!! I hope you’re enjoying my novels as much as I’m enjoying releasing them to you. The best part about being an author is being able to share some small piece of a world I get to create with an infinite number of other people to appreciate. The second best thing is getting to hear what you think about it. Reviews are our (authors) life-blood. Feed me, Seymour. Lol. No, seriously, thank you for taking a chance on me.

     

    Thanks for joining Marie McKinney and I on the deck. Sorry, we won't share the remaining Reeses with you, I'm letting Marie take the rest home. You can find Marie

     

    Twitter and Instagram: @mckinney_writes

    Website: ILoveTheWayYou.com

    Check out MarieMcKinney’s Amazon Author Page

     

    Please check out her latest book, The Arrangement, the 1st book in the Wilde Men series.

     


    When Magdalena was a little girl, the worse thing she could imagine was never knowing who her father was. Then she grew up and met him.
    Now with the threat of what’s left of her family being ripped apart, she’s forced to wed his rival to stop a brewing war from imploding a world she never knew existed.

    When the girl he’d pledged to marry was murdered, Aidan Wilde swore he would never share his life with anyone else. He promised her he’d dedicate every breath to ruining her killer. Who would have thought that in order to do the second he’d have to break his promise about the first? But that doesn’t mean he’s going to give away his heart.

    He’s not the husband she wanted but he’s the one she needs.
    She’s not the wife he wanted but she’s the one he’s owed.
    Together Magdalena and Aidan could be a force to be reckoned with.
    But first they have to get out of their own way.

     

    The Arrangement on Amazon 

     

     Pick it up now to read while waiting for the 2nd book, Stay coming in November.

     

     

    Wednesday, November 4, 2020

    #Thursday13 - Favorite #Couple-time Ideas

    Flyboy & I celebrated our 29nd anniversary on Monday. We aren't "empty nesters" yet and we had to plan an evening around our 15 yr old's football practice. However, Flyboy made a couple of  "to die for" steaks on the grill, broiled lobster tails while I whipped up some yummy butter beans. Sharing a meal and wine while listening to OUR music was a delightful treat.

    Anyways... this week's TT is some of my favorite things to do with my honey. 
     
    1. Go junkin'. We love to drive around and find garage sales. The best treasures are found at barn sales. 
    2. Go for a walk. We live in the woods and take the dog with us. We walk on the road or in the back, it's nice to enjoy the peacefulness of nature.


    3. Exploring farmers markets.

    4.  Visiting Traverse City or any small, quaint town in Norther Michigan.

    Visiting North Peak Brewing Co.
    Traverse City, MI

    5. Visiting local wineries, breweries and distilleries.

    6. Cooking outside. Grilling. We work together to create the best marinade or try out new recipes. Cooking over the bonfire. Sipping wine while sitting near the bonfire.

    7. We love cooking anything together in the kitchen. Sometimes it turns into a family event. I'm proud to say my boys enjoy cooking almost as much as they like to eat.

    In the kitchen - aprons on!

    8. Visiting neighbors. In our neighborhood it's common for neighbors to grab some drinks and head to each other's homes.

    9.  Heading to Frankenmuth for a mini adventure; wandering through the quaint shops.

    10. Snuggling on the couch reading while he watches the Tigers or Lions play.

    11. Sitting in the bleachers with our friends watching our son play football or baseball. (Yeah, we still have one at home.)

    12. Cuddling on the couch watching a funny movie.

    13. Well.... yeah... of course THAT!  But I didn't want to brag or make anyone jealous.

    They are not listed in any particular order. I would say top couple-time things to do are cooking together and exploring quaint towns. (And of course, #13.)

    What do you like to do with your honey?


    Visit more amazing Thursday 13 lists HERE

    Tuesday, November 3, 2020

    Traditional Anniversary Gift Guide

     


    In 1922, Emily Post, the queen of proper etiquette, wrote that only eight anniversaries required traditional gifts. However, records from the mid-1800s show the anniversary gift list with the first fifteen years and every five years after that from the 20th to the 60th, and the 75th. Today, the most commonly followed gift list is the traditional anniversary gift list, approved by Mrs. Emily Post.


    Traditional Anniversary Gifts

    1st

    Paper

    2nd

    Cotton

    3rd

    Leather

    4th

    Fruit or Flowers

    5th

    Wood

    6th

    Candy or Iron

    7th

    Wool or Copper

    8th

    Bronze or Pottery

    9th

    Pottery or Willow

    10th

    Tin or Aluminum

    11th

    Steel

    12th

    Silk or Linen

    13th

    Lace

    14th

    Ivory

    15th

    Crystal

    20th

    China

    25th

    Silver

    30th

    Pearl

    35th

    Coral

    40th

    Ruby

    45th

    Sapphire

    50th

    Gold

    55th

    Emerald

    60th

    Diamond

    I enjoy this list rather than the modern, gemstone, or flower lists. I like to be creative with gifts for my honey. While anniversary gift-giving has become a somewhat mandatory practice, it doesn't mean that you have to follow the gift lists. While anniversary gift lists are helpful for sparking ideas, it's more important to give a gift that expresses your love for your partner and comes from the heart.


    EMILY POST AND ANNIVERSARY GIFTS GUIDE



    Biography Available on AMAZON