Humans have a long history of kissing. Europeans
kiss both cheeks. Parents kiss their child's cheek. The Intuit rub noses. The
French kiss by... well… you know. Kissing, both casual and romantic, is a
common practice, but we really don't know where or how it began.
There are several different theories as to how kissing all began:
* In ancient times, a mother would chew up food
and pass it directly to the mouth of her baby. What started as a sign of
affection between mother and child most likely spread to romantic
relationships. However, some cultures had the same practice of passing food to
their children, but knew nothing about kissing.
* Some believed that our souls lived in our
breath and that kissing brings your soul together, thus combining you together
for eternity. This is a romantic theory, but not really one that can be proven
true.
* Kissing gets you close enough to your partner
to smell their scent, giving you knowledge of the person. Animals practice a
similar behavior by rubbing against each other.
The
theories are just that though. There is no proof or record of where and how
kissing originally began. We do know that Europeans were kissing during the
Greek and Roman times. It also appears that some form of kissing may have started
in India as there are texts from around 1500 B.C. that describe the custom of
rubbing noses together, now commonly referred to as 'Eskimo Kissing'.
While we don't know for sure when or where kissing first began, the reference to 'Eskimo Kissing' supports the theory that kissing gets you close to your partner in order to pick up on their scent. When you inhale your partner's scent, you subconsciously learn a lot about the other person by their smell. As we previously noted, most animals engage in a similar behavior.
It seems then that the modern romantic kiss most likely evolved as a way of unconsciously testing the genetic fitness of a potential mate. While this may be the underlying reason as to why we began kissing, it's not really the main reason as to why we continue to practice it. The reason is simple: it feels good, it evokes feelings of passion, and it's a physical connection between us and our partners.
However the kiss began, we're thankful. :)
While we don't know for sure when or where kissing first began, the reference to 'Eskimo Kissing' supports the theory that kissing gets you close to your partner in order to pick up on their scent. When you inhale your partner's scent, you subconsciously learn a lot about the other person by their smell. As we previously noted, most animals engage in a similar behavior.
It seems then that the modern romantic kiss most likely evolved as a way of unconsciously testing the genetic fitness of a potential mate. While this may be the underlying reason as to why we began kissing, it's not really the main reason as to why we continue to practice it. The reason is simple: it feels good, it evokes feelings of passion, and it's a physical connection between us and our partners.
