Handcuffs are an important accessory for a cop costume
but also can be a lot of fun in the bedroom. Keep in mind, handcuffs used in
sex play are made to be comfortable and safe so don’t borrow your buddy’s
police issue. Having restricted movement will intensify the senses and make for
very sensual loving.
A recent study found that men who engage
in bondage say they feel less sad, nervous or hopeless than men do generally.
They're not markedly different from other men-bondage may be just a way
"to express their heightened interest in sex and sexual
permissiveness," says Richard O de Visser, PhD, author of the study in the
Journal of Sexual Medicine. "It's simply a sexual interest that's
attractive to a minority, and not indicative of past abuse or difficulty with
'normal' sex," Visser says.
Use handcuffs designed for sex play. These can often be found at retail shops such as Lover's Lane or online. Look for handcuffs make from strong material and have a safety release. Be sure they are the correct size to prevent injury.
Always communicate with your partner regarding desires and boundaries. Begin play gently and slowly move to more intense levels. Play safe and enjoy!
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