Thursday, July 11, 2013

Thursday 13 - Date Ideas

I write for the 1 Night Stand series from Decadent Publishing. The characters don't have to worry too much about their first date, just the fact it's a blind date and sex is guaranteed. But let's hit reality for a moment. 

First dates can be incredibly tricky and nerve-wracking. It is therefore very important to establish in your own mind what you expect from the date beforehand. If possible, arrange to meet in a public place that you are familiar with, and do not forget to take your cell-phone, or a "back up plan" with a friend in case of an emergency.

If the first date goes well and you're onto the second and third dates the important thing to remember is to have fun and do not expect too much. After all, what is a first few dates are a fun way to get to know one another, and to explore the possibilities of developing a strong and lasting relationship?

Here are thirteen ideas for those dates in the beginning of a relationship.
 
 
1. Go out for dinner then a movie. Having dinner together lets you get to know them better while watching the movie together provides the perfect atmosphere to just get used to them without having to talk too much.

2. Go out to eat, sit and talk and give a small kiss goodnight.

3. Have a picnic at a lake under the moonlight.

4. Walk along the beach or in a park at night.  My honey & I used to enjoy walking in a ritzy area and pick out our dream homes and cars.

5. Have dinner, watch a movie and end the night by playing video games at a local arcade together.

6. Holding hands while walking in the park, getting to know each other.

7. Go out to eat, watch a movie, have a moonlight walk on the beach or through a park ending the evening with the perfect kiss.

8. Go out to dinner then spend time together at a coffee shop getting to know each other.

9. Getting to know each other in the back of a truck on a back road under a starry sky.

10. Laying by the fireplace with romantic music and candlelight getting to know each other.

11. Go out dancing together.

12. Visit an amusement park or county fair.

13. Sit on the porch sipping wine, sharing a snack and talking.

6 comments:

colleen said...

I'd pick dancing! Stargazing is a close second.

CountryDew said...

Nice ideas. Sporting events are good, too.

Hazel Ceej said...

This is a fairy tale. My faves are nos. 3 and 7.

Hazel

Shelley Munro said...

I think dinner and a movie works well. You get to chat a little but there's not too much pressure and you can discuss the movie.

Jennifer Leeland said...

My first date with The Redneck was a trip to the river with him and his dog. It would have probably been just a nice time together, but he broke out some poetry he'd written and...well...I was a goner. LOL!

Rekaya Gibson said...

Good ideas. My first date was a wine tasting on a beach in Virginia Beach. Your list brought back memories. Thank you for sharing and visiting my blog.

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