1ST CHAPTER & COVER CONTEST

Handcuffs & Silk is my story but it's Fiona Jayde's sensual cover art featuring the delicious Jimmy Thomas.

The 1st Chapter is in a contest as well as the cover over on
D. Rennee Bagby Presents  
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Poll is open until Feb. 29.

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Vote for Handcuffs & Silk in Cover Contest

Handcuffs & Silk is my story but it's Fiona Jayde's sensual cover art featuring the delicious Jimmy Thomas that's in the February Cover Contest over on You Gotta Read Reviews. 

 
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Poll is open until Feb. 27.

Here's my shameless begging...please vote for Handcuffs & Silk....pretty please. Thank you.

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Slow It Down, Baby

Why slowing down in bed could help your sex life.

If you want to make sex a more sensual experience, slow down. Take your time. Banning the quickie from your sex life will have a startling and sensual effect, taking your lovemaking to the next level.
Slow sex isn't about endurance, marathon sessions or complicated positions. It's about really being there in the moment, enjoying one another fully. It's about taking the time to touch and to kiss. The point isn't just to have sex, but rather to feel real sensual joy.

"It's mutual pleasuring, not purposeful foreplay," Barry McCarthy, a clinical psychologist and coauthor of Rekindling Desire, explained to Ladies' Home Journal. Sex is not a commodity. It is not supposed to be time-efficient.

Create a bedroom that is a sanctuary for slow sex. Move the television to another room. Turn off the telephone. Shut down the computer. Give full attention to your lover. Install low-level romantic lighting, even if it's just a carefully-placed nightlight.

So what do you do when you slow down for "mutual pleasuring"?

Try the following:

• Massage
• Deep, lingering kisses
• Teasing with your fingers and mouth
• Touch that is by turns tender and erotic

While these may include orgasm, that is not the point. Instead, it's about building desire and intimacy.
Slow sex means learning how to give one another great pleasure. It is a soulful, intimate expression of your love that will make sex far more sensual. It will deepen your emotional, psychological and even spiritual bond with your lover. A quickie can't compete with that!

As Mae West said,

"Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly."

Truths about Love in a Kid's Point of view

I love chatting with my three boys and their friends. 

Kids say the cutest things, especially the youngest ones. 

For Valentine's Day, I thought I'd share some of their thoughts on LOVE.

“I think you fall in love why you get shot with an arrow or something, but the rest of it isn’t supposed to be so painfull.”

“One person who has freckles finds somebody else who has freckles and they fall in love.”

“Falling in love is like an avalanche where you have to run for your life.”

“If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don’t want to do it.  It takes too long.”

“No one is sure why people fall in love.  But I heard it has something to do with how you smell.  That’s why perfume and deodorant are so popular.”

“Beauty is skin deep.  But how rich you are can last a long time.”

“Lovers hold hands.  They want to make sure their rings don’t fall of because they paid good money for them.”

“When people hold hands they are just practicing for when they might have to walk down the aisle someday and do the matchimony thing.”

“I’m in favor of love as long as it doesn’t happen when SpongeBob Squarepants is on TV.”

“Love is foolish…but I still might try it sometime.”

“To make a person fall in love with you, tell them that you own a whole bunch of candy stores.”

“Love with find you, even if you are trying to hide from it.  I’ve been trying to hide from it since I was five, but the girls keep finding me.”

“Love is the most important thing in the world, but baseball is pretty good, too.”

Happy V-Day to my special guys... I love you!