Sunday, February 28, 2021

Birthday Nostalgia

While unpacking St. Patty decorations I came upon a little Hallmark book my sister gave to me on my birthday when I was very young.

I will make a point to call Ann today, inform her of my find and share a few laughs.

As I read the tiny book, I thought of what birthdays mean. Yeah, sure... they mean I'm getting older. Shut up! Other than that, come on! 

Birthdays for making wishes and feeling lovely. I like to think of things that make me feel happy.

Mom would throw a "party" for me every year with aunts, my uncle, cousins, grandmothers and best friends. 

I made a tradition of my mom telling me "my birth story". 

Feb 28, 1967 arrived between two blizzards. My sister had a friend (the neighbor girl) spending the night. Mom was sitting in her chair reading when the contractions began. She knew from her previous births, it would be awhile before I would make my appearance. . Ann and her friend were amazed with my mom and kept fussing over her with excitement. After giving Mom a hard time the next day by turning at the last minute, I eventually arrived at 9:58pm. (March 1)

The second half of my tradition with Mom was being allowed to stay up until 9:58 so we could celebrate my "birth time". Even after I became an adult, we'd be on the phone with each other at that special time.

Dad passed away when I was 27, Mom passed away in 2016. I miss that tradition. 

This year, Flyboy is in the air and the eldest sons are gone so it's just me and the Teenager. We'll order take-out and relax. Meh... good enough for me. Maybe I'll share my "birth story" with him. I'm sure I'll get an eyeroll out of him.

What do birthdays mean to you?

Saturday, February 27, 2021

#WritingPrompt - Personal Landscape




     It's lovely but cold winter morning in my neck of the woods.
 I have a Writing Prompt to help encourage you to write and keep a journal. 


Sit comfortably with your notebook and pen. Write for 10 -15 minutes.


EXERCISE: PERSONAL LANDSCAPES
It's snowy winter here in Michigan 
and I have some amazing memories of growing up in my winter wonderland state. 
BFFs Trish, me, and Erin.


Picture winter in your childhood or some years back. Think of an outdoor place or landscape that was special to you. It may be a location you saw frequently, somewhere you went occasionally, or a place you visited only once. It could be a field, a road, a river, beach, playground, zoo, mountain, view from a window, the outside of a building. 

Describe the place, picking out features that were important to you. Include any sounds, colors, textures and smells you remember. Explain how you felt about the place and also how you feel as you think and write about it now.








     




Thursday, February 25, 2021

Crow Magic - The Story Behind the Story

Crow Magic, is about a Native American shape shifter. 
I was asked how I attained my interest and knowledge of Native American legend and lore. My response became a story.


After the Civil War, my great-great grandfather, Gardner Avery, left his New York regiment to settle with his wife, Helen Greenleaf Kern, in a rural area near Grand Rapids, Michigan, named Jamestown. He kept a diary, which remains in the family, of his daily activities and expenses. On the land he purchased to farm, a tribe of Native Americans resided. The couple let the Potawatomi continue to live and hunt on the land.

Potawatomi Warrior
Over time they developed close friendships with many of the tribal folk. My great-great-grandmother became very close to the medicine woman of the tribe who taught her the use of herbs in food and healing. The Avery’s interest in the art of the tribe eventually led to them learning how to make the Native American pottery. Through stories shared around meals, they learned the spirituality of the Native Americans.

At the time, Grand Rapids was one of the first large scale trading posts used by the Ottawa, Potawatomi and the Chippewa. My ancestors learned valuable information from their relationships with these tribes, which lead them to have a successful farm and healthy family. Despite the Avery’s wishes, the government forced the tribe off the land and into a reservation. According to family legend, Helen and her dearest friend spent the last days together. After hugs and many tears, she stood in a field and watched the tribe travel until they were out of sight.

The information, stories, and traditions my ancestors learned have been passed down through the
generations. I grew up listening to the stories my grandmother told of visiting the farm and her grandparents. She also shared aspects of the Native American spirituality and showed us how similar it is to Christianity.

 In the 1950s, my grandparents purchased property and build a cottage on Coldwater Lake, not far from Mt. Pleasant, Michigan. We spent many summers at the cottage, where we collected arrowheads we found in the local sand pits. A Chippewa family owned a cottage near ours and “Indian Dave” would share their stories, dances, and traditions with us while we sat around a bonfire.

I could say the knowledge of herbals and spirituality lives in me because of the ties of my family with the tribes of Michigan and beginning embraced by each generation of my family.


To add to my family history, my cousin’s father was from a Seminole tribe and my brother-in-law is a descendant of a French Trader and Blackfoot Indian woman. Funny, how a person with the Welch/Swedish/German heritage I have, can be neatly blended with Native American legend and lore. Grandmother used to tell us that our legacy isn’t only family blood but also the land we live in.


I am currently working on another Native American hawk shifter from a Chippewa tribe in Michigan who is secretly in love with his commanding officer. But before he returns to his unit after recovering from an injury, he learns he has one shot to capture her heart without losing his honor.  


Lucy Richards is tired of being timid around men. Hoping to overcome her fears and feel like a real woman, she turns to Madame Eve to find a man who will fulfill that goal. Eve arranges a one-night stand with a handsome Shawnee shaman who will teach Lucy to use her womanly power and take her to unimaginable heights.

Shape shifter Seth Crowe is a Keeper of the Spiritual Law who carries souls from darkness to light, and enjoys using his body to accomplish his magic.

Tucked away in the Castillo Poconos Resort, Seth helps Lucy find spiritual and sexual freedom, never dreaming he might find his own mate in the bargain.