Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Humpday Help - Very Superstitous


Today is the first day of bow hunting season. Dear Hubby packed his gear and headed for the woods. I remembered a day when he insisted on wearing "his lucky sweatpants" under his camouflage. Today, I think he nixed the sweatpants but has placed his faith in his old bow since it has been good to him over the years.

As I watched him leave from a doorway with two horseshoes nailed above, I thought of superstitions or "good luck charms".

Nailing a horseshoe over a door is a combination of two superstitions.
1. In early times,horses were considered magical. Because they could find their way in the dark, people believed they could foresee danger or could guide souls through the underworld. So anything connected with a horse was lucky.
2. Horseshoes are made of iron, which was considered protective. The Norse god of battle wore iron gloves and carried an iron hammer. Romans nailed pieces of iron over the doors, believing it could ward off evil spirits. In the 10th cent. Christians added their own twist to the superstition - the tale of a blacksmith named Dunstan (who later became Archbishop of Canterbury.) Dunstan had an unusual customer one day... he requested special shoes be made for his cloven feet. Dunstan pretended to not recognize him and said he would make the shoes. Instead he shackled the Devil to the wall and treated him so brutally that Satan cried for mercy. Dunstan released him only after making him promise never to enter a dwelling with a horseshoe on the door.

I sometimes "knock on wood" for good luck. Do you?
In the Middle Ages, churchmen insisted that knocking on wood was part of their tradition of prayer, since Christ was crucified on a wooden cross. Both Native American and ancient Greeks developed the belief that oak trees were the domain of an important god. By knocking on an oak, they were communicating with him and asking for his forgiveness.

How about throwing pennies into a wishing well? Come on, admit it.
Ancient people believed spirits living in springs and fountains demanded tribute - usually flesh. Young Mayan girls, for example, were sometimes tossed into the Well o Sacrifice "to marry the spirits". I'm glad today we just toss a couple pennies in a well for good luck.

Do you pull on that wishbone saved from the Thanksgiving turkey? We do, the boys love the tradition!
Over 2,000 years ago, the Etruscans believed that chickens (which squawk before they lay an egg) could tell the future. The powers extended to part of the bird's skeleton, too. So when a sacred hen died, the Etruscans put its collarbone int he sun until it dried out. The people would pick it up, rub it, and make a wish. It became known as the "wishbone". Later it became a symbolic tug-of-war; not everyone would get their wish and it became a contest to see whom the gods favored.

Funny how such traditions are passed through the years. I remember sitting on my grandmother's porch with my cousins watching trains go past. We would each pick a color of what we thought the color of the caboose was - whoever ended up being correct would have good luck all day. We would hold our breath every time we went past a graveyard.

While riding the bus, the boys pick up their feet every time they go over railroad tracks. Dev has his lucky glove for baseball. Trev was born on the Friday the 13th, so in his case... it's a lucky day! I still pick up pennies (only if they're heads up), put them in my pocket for good luck. Oh... I even have a special pen I sign my books with!


What superstitions do you have? Tell me, I'd love to hear. I promise I won't tell... cross my heart.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Humpday Help - Personal Landscapes



When the week seems to be dragging and your mood is low, try to think back to a place in your childhood... a landscape where you felt free. Now grab a cup of your favorite beverage, sit down, relax... and put yourself in that place.

Some of my best memories are from time spent at the family cottage. My grandparents built the small structure in the 1950's to give the family a get-away, a place to hunt and fish, a place for grand kids to enjoy. The building was small, built on a cement slab but had large bay windows overlooking the lake and a wonderful loft where kids preferred to sleep.

I always woke early but would lie in my bed listening to the birds outside and Grandma moving around in the kitchen until my cousin Randy stirred. From his bed he could look down the loft fold-away staircase into the kitchen and had perfect view of the stove. This vantage point allowed him to see when the bacon was done cooking and upon his observations we would manage to be the first at the breakfast table.

After the meal we usually went for a walk in the woods until the sun rose higher into the sky warming the lake. We would then race into the water and spend the entire day pretending to be aquatic. Only at the promise of a evening bonfire would we return to shore.

Finding bonfire wood was one of our few chores at the cottage; that and emptying the honey dew bucket. Ewe! Anyways, during one of our hunts for twigs and decent bonfire wood we found a giant wooden spool... the kind cable is transported upon. We dragged that spool back to the beach and played games with it all summer until it mysteriously disappeared.

I always felt good being at the cottage. Perhaps because I was surrounded by family, perhaps it was the effect of nature on me. When I was alone, I believed I was closer to God. He whispered to me in the trees of the woods while birds sang His praises. I felt His touch when the gentle breeze caressed my face while sitting on the end of the dock.

The cottage is much older now but the water is still clear and God is still there. Now a third generation frolics on the beach, searches for bonfire wood and waits for bacon to finish cooking.

Now it's your turn to enjoy your personal landscape.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Cleaning Day - Give yourself a hand



Here it is, Monday. I've been up for four hours and have swept/mopped the floors, did five loads of laundry, and tidied the kitchen. Then I noticed how dry my hands were. Here's a few tips for those dishpan hands.

* Rub olive oil into your hands before cleaning. Especially if you wear cleaning gloves - which is a very smart thing to do, but not everybody feels comfortable wear those big ugly yellow things.

* Silicone Glove is a lotion sold by Avon. Many women (and men) state how this seems to protect their hands. (My Mom used it all the time, but Dad preferred Corn Huskers he purchased from the pharmacy.)

* Mix together 1/4 cup of ground almonds, a beaten egg, a handful of comfrey root, and a tablespoon of honey. Coat your hands with the mixture, pull on an old pair of leather or cotton gloves and wear overnight. Rinse your hands in the morning and repeat this for a week. Your hands will feel very soft and supple.

* For bad nails, immerse fingertips into a bowl of warm olive oil for 30 minutes a day until you see an improvement. (I did this prior to my wedding and I had amazing nails!) If olive oil is a bit sparse in your cupboard, fill a small bowl with water and add just enough oil to cover the water. Warm carefully.

* For stains that won't go away, rub hands and nails with the pithy side of a piece of lemon zest. Leave for a minute and then wash off.

* If you cook with cast iron or have a large wood cutting board, use lard to bring the polish back. Afterwards, rub your hands together and enjoy the softness in your skin.

There are so many products on the store shelves for dry, cracked, itchy, red... whatever state your hands are in. Through my confusion I think back to the work my grandmothers used to do, yet their hands, skin and hair was always nice. Perhaps in the old wives' tales there may be some truth!

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Humpday Help - A Day Late

As you can see, I am posting a day late. Sorry, not writing tips. Yesterday was Weird & Wacky Wednesday. The schedule was so full with events by the time I finally sat down (10pm) I was amazed that everything was accomplished. Then I realized... I hadn't eaten dinner. Everyone else had pizza on the run. *sigh*

So, today I pulled out a cookbook the kids at my church put together. Prescipies, Holy-Some Recipes.

Enjoy this dish:

I Didn't Have Time to Fix Dinner Casserole

2 lb ground beef
1 small onion, chopped
2 (12 oz) pkg. frozen French fries
1 can Cheddar cheese soup
1 can golden mushroom soup

Pat raw burger evenly in to 9x13 inch pan. Sprinkle on diced onion. Pour soup over onion and beef, spreading evenly, being sure to spread to edges of pan. Sprinkle frozen fries over soup layer. Bake at 350 for 1 hr 15 min. Serves 6.


NOTE: Prescipies is a collection of recipes from members and friends; and sponsored by the youth of First Presbyterian Church, Saginaw, MI. All proceeds from the sales of this cookbook are donated to the Children's Mission - Heifer International. If you wish to purchase this book email me at maryquast@yahoo.com. $10 for the book $2 shipping, I accept money through PayPal.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Cleaning Day - The Miracle of Ivory Soap


I was at Trev's soccer game this weekend when I saw one of the other moms. She wasn't limping with pain in her legs like the last time we met. I commented on well she looked and she proceed to tell me a story of an old wives' tale regarding Ivory Soap. A friend of hers told her to hold a bar of soap (he preferred Ivory) for a few moments, it would take the pain away. She tried it, and to her surprise... it worked!

Just the mention of old wives' tales and Ivory Soap took me back to my childhood and the time spent with my maternal grandmother. She used Ivory Soap for everything... liquid for dishes, bar for bath, flakes for laundry. I loved that clean fresh smell of her pillow cases. Ivory Soap has been around for so long, it makes one wonder if some of those tales of this miracle cleaner are true.

To get a stain out - attack it right away by rubbing a bar of Ivory Soap directly on the stain, rinse.

This cleaner will remove coffee stains, berry stains, even mildew from garment! Ivory Soap is very mild; with an almost neutral pH, no perfumes, no moisturizers, no other chemical additives. It is gentle enough for baby clothes and those with sensitive skin.

As a child, my family spent much of the summer at our cottage that had no indoor plumbing. Gram would give my cousins and I a bar of Ivory Soap and send us to the lake to wash up. We had so much fun playing with that floating bar until it became so full of sand it eventually sunk and was never found. Needless to say, Gram managed to get us clean and keep us out of her hair for a while!

Laundry day at Grams was a blast! She had an old washing machine. One that you had to push the garments through a wringer into a tub of clear water to rinse then wring them again. I helped her on the days she had to do her personal items such as bras and girddles. But it was such fun to push, pull, dip, and wring the items all while enjoying that wonderful Ivory Soap smell.

Checking my cupboards, I realized I don't have any Ivory Soap. I think I will run to the market today to pick up a bar or two. After all, it works on dirty faces, grimy little hands, and will take stains off my son's shirts in a gentle manner. Maybe I'll try it for pain, too. Hmmm... I think I'll keep a bar in my bathroom... just for that wonderful smell.

Tah, tah... I'm off to the market. Have a great week!

Saturday, September 13, 2008

A Special Boy



Today is my son's 12Th birthday. Not a day goes by that I'm not amazed at how time has flown by. He's growing too fast but I'm very proud of him. Trevor loves books... reading and writing them. He hopes to publish a poetry book and/or a short story some day. I believe he will do this! (His 8 yr old brother already has!)

My little man already thinks about college... looking at Alma - Go Scots! He plans on being a scientist, a writer, and a book shop owner!

I've tried to take him to book signing events promoting children's and young adult writers. He's met Johnathan Rand at least five times. (See photo of Trev & his favorite author above.) He's even attended some of mine knowing that he's not allowed to read my work until he's 18. LOL.

It seems to me, that when a young person actually meets the author they in turn will read more work by that author and more books. This all being good!

So the message I send to writers of all genre is to be available to your fans, encourage young people you know to attend book signing events. I also send the message to those who enjoy books and reading; attend events with a friend, take a young person to an event of their favorite author.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Humpday Help

Happy Wednesday... it's the middle of the week and do you need some help getting over this hump?

Sometimes one just needs a simple little change to get that burst of energy to keep going to the weekend. As an artist, I'll do a little drawing to pick myself up. This can be anything from a doodle while on a lengthy phone conversation with my mom, to actually stepping outside with a sketchbook. Needless to say, alot of time is not needed; this is a very short exercise.

As a writer take a moment today to remember a landscape or a visual from your past, perhaps your childhood. Is it a scene at the county fair? Perhaps a day of sunbathing poolside with friends? Think back to a silly time and write a descriptive paragraph about what your mind's eye sees. You might even get carried away and write a few paragraphs or even book. Ya never know!

Altogether, this little exercise will should bring a smile to your face and joy in your heart. If it doesn't... then do something like a child. Get down on the floor and play dolls or hot wheels with a child. Put your arms up and twirl about like a ballerina. Call somebody a "Poopy head" when you're angry with them.

Have fun and feel free to post a silly today!

Monday, September 8, 2008

Cleaning Day

Mondays are "Change the Bed Day" here at my house. This is the day of the week I catch up on cleaning the house and the laundry created from the weekend. So in honor of this eventful day, I decided to blog every Monday with the theme of cleaning. Perhaps I can inspire others, dole out tips to help with the strenuous task of cleaning, or simply add a bit of humor to the day. Cleaning is certainly not my favorite thing to do, but the task can be made fun or easier. I will do my best... so here we go!


Now I have preached before on turning the task of cleaning into a spiritual experience. As you throw away useless papers, throw away bad feelings to cleanse your mind and soul. But today lets have some fun... turn on the stereo.

You don't have to put on white cotton socks, and play an air guitar... but it is encouraged. Any music will do... as long as you enjoy it. Feel the music, let yourself smile and your spirit lift.

I like to play some blues at a high volume and sing along with the black master who tells the tale about getting dressed for his date. As I'm gathering discarded sweatshirts and smelly socks, I sing about putting on freshly pressed pants of a zoot suit, polished shoes, and don't forget that silk handkerchief for the breast pocket. Not all blues tunes are sad, many are very humorous... one can sing the blues with any words, the music simpy comes from the soul. I dance with my broom and the dog cocks her head in a curious manner while watching me. I try to encourage her to dance but she prefers to "sing".

A selection of light Spring Jazz is playing on my computer speakers...for now. There is a load in the washer, one in the drier, three other sorted piles in line on the floor waiting for their bath. When I return to the mud room, I'll play some fun jazz with birds and other nature sounds. Once a wren outside the window had an intersting coversation with the bird featured on the CD. I wonder what they discussed.

Currently, the house is quiet,the toddler is still asleep, the coffee pot just turned off. Today is my last day of drinking coffee; I'm switching back to tea. Coffee upset my constitution a bit too much. Speedy, the office guinea pig is even quiet at the moment; perhaps he knows his cage will be changed today and isn't bothering to complain.

Well, I'm headed downstairs to sweep. I think I'll tune in my favorite blues station and put on some cotton socks. Have a Happy Monday!

Friday, August 22, 2008

Go Barefoot!


How many times a day do I hear, "Mom, where are my shoes?" or "Mom, Nathan's barefoot again."? I feel like I'm on an endless search for shoes or chasing after a three year old who insists on not wearing them. Even at church, within a few minutes the shoes and socks miraculously disappear!

Today, I've been on the go getting the two older boys ready for school. I entered the house to be greeted in a thrush of hugs, snuggles and two adorable bare feet. Even when they are dirty I love to tickle those toes. Like a blast of air, he was off and running to join his brothers in play.

Finding myself in a quiet moment, I sat and took off my shoes. The wood of the floor felt cool against my feet. So I decided I too would be barefoot for the day.

Have you ever noticed how good the grass feels in between your toes? Walking through the yard takes me back to my childhood when I was barefoot most of the time. As an adult, when I have naked feet I feel a child-like spirit speaking to my heart. I find myself enjoying the little things such as butterflies, worms, and flowers.

In a religious sense, I thought about when the voice from a burning bush told Moses to take off his shoes because he was standing on Holy ground. He realized God was speaking to him. When we take off our shoes and feel the greatness of nature, is God perhaps speaking to us?

So let's take off our shoes, wriggle our toes and take the time to enjoy the small things in nature and in life!

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Clear the Clutter


Is your desk piled high with papers? Is your purse disorganized? Does your closet look like a tornado hit? Does clutter make your life feel like a constant obstacle course?

Clutter and disorganization can distract you and waste your energy.

Take a deep breath and make the decision to begin clearing the clutter in your life. Start small; organize one small area such as a shelf, a drawer, or your purse. You don't want to overwhelm yourself! Work your way to the big things.

As you clean that desk or the closet you may also be clearing the clutter of old attitudes, grudges, and negativity. This simple cleaning will also cleanse your spirit.

When you clean out a closet, attend to paperwork, organize your personal life, you'll find you have more energy to focus on the things that are important to you.

I find that after cleaning my desk, I have a burst of creativity, my writing muse is happy, and I write like crazy.

Don't get me wrong... I still wish I had a maid!